I have no one to talk to, someone help me-

Question

My life is so confused right now. I don't even know how to think straight enough to put this into words that make sense! I have bf concerns, family concerns, school issues. I don't know where to start! My bf just came home and I haven't talked to him all day. My sister, God I love her so much! But she stays in a relationship that doesn't make her happy and that makes me unhappy. School, is a mystery still being written! There are so many people I care about and love and I feel like they don't get how much I love them! I want to be with my bf more than anything, but we have so many restrictions because of our family and it's hurting me, I don't know about him, but it's killing me! My sister, I wish she would use her head and not her heart this time because her loser bf doesn't deserve her! And she runs back to him because she's lonely! School and friends, too much to say! I need something to calm me down and clear my mind. God help me.

Answer 1

calm down,relax.no one said life would be easy.we all face problems.breathe in and out at a regular pace.your sister's decisions are her own,you cannot change whom she dates or see's.you have to focus on your own choices in life.school,family and relationship with your bf,just calm down,take one day at a time,slow thinking and steady positive thoughts should enter your mind.family tends to try to control us,but they mean well.just talk calmly with your family and tell them all your concerns.tell them your concerns about everything.also seek a counselor's help as well.it is good to talk things out with a professional maybe at your school?it helps alot!!

Answer 2

seems like you need to talk to someone or just do something you enjoy with your friends. Good Luck!

Answer 3

Well for one it seems like you worry about things with your sister that you have no control of.Meaning yes you love her and want her to be happy with someone else,but she has to be the one to make that decision of who she thinks is right for her.You should be there for support if she is hurting but not to tear her down or say I told you so but there when she is sad and happy.

As for as your boyfriend,I don't know how long he's been gone away from you.And maybe you should give him a call.As for as the restrictions with each other families,I would need more detail on this.Cause of what I can see is that it might have to do with age or even race so let me know and I will get you more of my opinions.

Now school is very important to everyone.You should have a strong focus on school right now.Everything else will be there when you finish.I tell my son this.He is so focus on graduating and becoming an engineer.Yes he likes girls and all that but he needs to stay focus,because his grades are so important right now and he agrees.This is the same for girls and boys,they will all be there when you finish.Unless you meet someone you wants something out of life.A person who is going to college is not a good match with someone who don't want college you know what I mean.

So I can talk about things all night and give you my oppinion but I need more details.I hope this all helps and you feel better God Bless.

Answer 4

Everyone has problems..but you just need to learn to deal with it. First of all..love your boyfriend a lot..and never leave him..because they are the one who are always on our side even when our family isn't. Guys are really supportive :) So, make sure you stay with him and don't drown him in you sadness..(not trying to be rude but who likes to listen to same old thing everyday). Just tell him that you have problems and need him for his support. Then studies, be in a really good company, with positive people around you.. do you homework as soon as you get home or finish it at your school library and then come home and concentrate ONLY on you studies when you are at school. And as far as your sister is concerned..girls come outta your houses and meet new people!! You sister will find someone! Its just a matter of time and she wil get over him! So just don't worry about this. Sit down and start organizing things..go according to it and just think that everything will be okie. And eventually everything WILL be okie.. I hope God showers you with happiness :)