I have no self confidence,I feel I hate my look and body although I'm no even fat and ugly.what shoul I do?

Question

I have no self confidence,I feel I hate my look and body although I'm no even fat and ugly.what shoul I do?

Answer 1

watch New York from Flavor of Love and copy her behavior.

Answer 2

I can tell you are going through a hard time right now. Sounds like you want to build your self-esteem. So I wonder if you have already tried anything? Some suggestions i would make are:

1. Get connected. Try to spend more time with family members that you love or make new friends. This will show you all the great qualities you have and keep your mind off the stuff thats troubling you.

2.Find a hobby. I personally love scrapbooking and I'm good at it. I get tons of compliments and that definitely builds me up. So find something you enjoy and build on your skills.

3. I am glad that you don't think your "fat" or "ugly" that is a good start. If you know its not true then there are emotions or something that is getting in the way. Try to find out what's bothering you (has to be something deeper than exterior).

4. Think of a time that you were happy. Felt good about yourself. When was it? and What were you doing at the time? Why was it different than now? Find out and try to go back to that.

I hope i've been of some help. Good luck.  

Answer 3

See a psychologist.  You think I'm joking but I'm serious.  You are not the first person to have self-esteem issues and you won't be the last.

Answer 4

i feel the same way about myself too i hated looking at myself in the mirror but i recently read a quote buy oscar wilde and it said "be yourself. because everyone else is taken" that made so much sense and god made you the way you are which is beautiful there are thousands of people out there that are handicapped,people who are starving in other countries, or with mental disabilities that would do anything to be normal. just be thank full that you are alive and normal . i recently started going back to church and it feel like the hole that was once in my life has been filled just be strong and have faith in yourself because you are a beautiful human being

Answer 5

Feelings mask thoughts. Is the reason you have no self confidence solely because of your looks?

Be honest with yourself, look through a health book or site. Look at the definitions of anorexia, eating disorders and what not. Does this describe you? If so, get help..

Answer 6

No one should hate the way the look. You just need to train yourself to believe that you are beautiful. You should tell yourself that you look nice, when you may not think so. Above all, just don't care what other people think, have fun being yourself and DON'T WORRY.

Answer 7

It sounds like you are trying to achieve perfection. You may not of realized this but you admit to some confidence but saying "I'm not even fat and ugly." But please don not look at the celebrities for a look you want.  They are airbrushed and spend hours in hair and makeup.  They also have the top artists make them over.  Instead try to find a friend that you think is pretty.  What about them makes them pretty to you? And then try to be around them more often.  Believe it or not, being around someone that is fun and outgoing can make you feel better about yourself.  But most of all, try not to overdo your make up.  If you look at polls in the magazines and internet, guys say they prefer girls with a more natural look.  But all of these pointers will not help you if you don't even try.  You have to go outside and believe that you are beautiful. After a while you will KNOW that you are.

Answer 8

Whoever said good was good and bad was bad?  Unless you constantly compare yourself to others than you will see how beautiful and great you really are inside.  It is a hard thing to do, but once you stop comparing yourself to others you will find true happiness.  Also, remember all the people who love you and care for you, you should continue to love them more each day and they will love you too.  Find someone new to love you and spend time with... you will feel very special, just having that *one* person.  That's all you need. :^)

Answer 9

Why do you hate your body?

Is it because your looks and body can't get you guys?

You need to add details in why you hate your body.

Then i'll comment on this and answer your question.