I have no s*x drive and its tearing us apart.?

Question

I am 20 yrs old recently my husband and i have hit a slump a big one and i never want to have s*x and he has constantly been asking about it like a little kid on christmas, we want children but he is gone during the week for work and he is constantly throwing it in my face when can we do it again?? then when i suck it up and do it for him a couple days later he tries to sit and tell me when haven't had s*x in two weeks then it blows up in a big fight and he acts like he is not pestering me at all and its ok that we are in a slump He doesn't want to listen and he doesn't understand what he is doing to me! DRVING ME CRAZY its ruining me my marriage and i am going to the doctor in a couple of weeks what do i do

Answer 1

Watch p**n. I'm serious. If you are not in the mood, put in a movie or get online and watch whatever you find interesting. It will hopefully help get you into the "spirit". Good Luck.

Answer 2

I am guessing that your husband is about the same age you are. A  man hits his sexual peek in between the ages of 18 to 29. A woman hits her sexual peek in between the ages of 30 to 40. He in lies a problem. My husband and I use to have the same problem. One of the things that made me have no s*x drive was his constant want. There is no room for you to get interested. Birth control was also a problem for me. When I stopped taking it, My s*x drive came back. However this is not something you can solve on your own. It will take both of you and both of you need to acknowledge that there is a problem without blaming each other.counseling is a good idea.

Answer 3

The two of you need serious counseling before you bring a child into your marriage.

Answer 4

You need to see a marriage councilor or something like that, they will help you, I promise.

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Answer 5

its abnormal to not want s*x with your own husband especially if you havent seen him all week. are you not attracted to him or something?  this is your issue not his. he has every right to feel let down as i would feel gutted if my husband wouldnt have regular s*x with me  

Answer 6

go see a marriage councilor or a s*x thereapist. they work wonders.  

Answer 7

The first thing you need to do is figure out why your s*x drive is low and try to help get it back.  I was in your situation and it's not fun without being horny and feeling in the mood when needed.  I also felt like my orgasms (if I would even get one) were really weak.  Probably because of my s*x drive.

However, I tried exercising and dieting but nothing seemed to be working.  I thought I was screwed.  I then found something just as amazing as the vibrator.

My friend at work told me about this stuff she took to raise her s*x drive.  It was a natural herbal supplement and was I lucky to of found it.  Theres no side effects and the s*x drive is just tremendous along with orgasms that are blasting.  The stuff is called Hersolution pills.  At the time I saved money on them at herenhancement.com

What I did was tried out for 3 months and that was really it.  I found taking them every other day or so was the best to stretch it out. After the months were up, I was back to normal with a beating s*x drive and my o****m strength in increased so much.  

Well good luck and I hope this helps.

Answer 8

Usually, you need a good relationship and the good s*x will follow.  Going to the doctor is a good idea to check hormone levels and some counsel for him wouldn't hurt either.

Answer 9

Eat foods with ZINC

you will be ripping each others clothes off soon

s*x THERAPIST

Answer 10

im missing some info here

does he just ask 4 s*x or does he try to get you in the mood

no disrespect

but do yall have oral s*x

is it the same kind of s*x every time..in the same place..are you bored

did yall have s*x before you got married

you better think of something quick

because if your not "doing" him he will be doing someone else