I have no s*x drive!?

Question

Since I had my daughter (19 months ago) s*x with my hubby has been different. It still hurts sometimes and I'm never interested in it. It is casuing problems in our marriage. i love my hubby but I just don't have any s*x drive anymore! I know that I am self concious because i haven't lost all of the baby weight, but I'm wondering if i can do something to help the situation.

Answer 1

how old are you?

Answer 2

Can you have someone baby sit your precious bundle so you and hubby can get out of  the home and alone?

Make your relationship with hubby a priority, take some out together, see a movie, have a meal, coffee, visit friends even.

This is so important for your marriage to work,  communicate your feelings to each other, maybe suggest more foreplay or just cuddles and kisses sometimes .......wear nice clothes, put make-up on...that will help you feel good about yourself....hopefully you may get that loving feeling back.

Answer 3

I think a doctor can help.  He/she might give you some kind of pill to enhance your s*x drive.

Answer 4

watch porno

Answer 5

Talk to your doctor. Decreased s*x drive is very common after having a baby.

Answer 6

You may be having some mild post par tum symptoms. See your doc for further help.

Answer 7

it's in the normality limit (19 months) but still have to see a doctor

Answer 8

U are probably tired from looking after bub all day. Try to get hubby to help out more and u will get more energy. Try eating foods high in zinc like strawberries and oysters :)

Answer 9

i feel sorry for your husban, try exersise as this will increae your astogen levels

Answer 10

i can tell you the pain is prolly from the doc stitching you up a little crooked. happened to me too. wont hurt forever though.

Answer 11

that is very bad. it means you are on drugs or medication, unhealthy or to old that you lost interesting.

Answer 12

Have you talked to your husband about this? Ask him to make some changes, add some foreplay or something. Change up the positions. Do it in water. After years of marriage, it's not going to be as exciting as the beginning.

Answer 13

to be honest i don't think you should worry about it too much the pain is still probably from the birth it does take a while for everything to heal and get back to normal and as for the s*x drive problem its most likely due to the fact that you have a 19 month old baby to take care of most of the time so its the only thing on your mind so maybe you could try and relax for another few months or so and don't be too self conscious about the baby weight you will lose it with a little working out here and there but if after a few months go by and you and your husband have s*x again and it hurts still go to a doctor and explain to the doctor and enjoy your daughter. i hope this helps =)