I have no where to go, what should i do?

Question

About a month ago I was kicked out of my house. Following that my dads wife filed a restraining order against him filling it with lies saying all this c**p like i abused and scared her and we restrained her from calling the police and all this junk. Well we went to court and she won the suit. So right now, i'm staying at my sisters house. Everyone in my family wants me to live with my mom but she lives 2 hours away and I'd be giving up all my friends, clubs, my bf, my education (because they don't offer the programs I want at the school where she lives, like German) and not to mention the system for graduating is totally different. Also if I stay, I'll be the only one from my family to go to West and graduate. My mom drives me crazy and wants to change everything about me. She wouldn't let me have my cat and she would change how I dress in a heartbeat. Shes constantly in and out of jail and drunk ALL THE TIME. But shes lying to my sister saying shes going to do all this stuff for me. If she really cared, wouldn't she do it on her own instead of forcing me to live with her? My dad is staying at my brothers and we're trying to work something out with his wife. Basically we're trying to get back in the house then kick her out when she leasts expects it. But in the mean time, my family is on my *** about moving in with my mom. I only have 2 years of high school left and i don't want to live through it with my moms bullshit. Any advice?

Answer 1

just stay where you are. it's whats better for you

Answer 2

dude shes your sis

and i say for every bumpy road theres a smooth one up ahead

i say finish your education

itll pay off soon

Answer 3

commit a crime and go to jail...free accomodation and food...let society pay for ur living!

Answer 4

tough spot, no?

stay there till you're done with school, then you can move somewhere else...I guess

Good luck!

Answer 5

Don't go back with your Mom, sounds like it would be hard on you. Is there a friend you could stay with? Why can't you stay with your sister?  

Answer 6

sounds like NO to stay with your mom..

If I were you..I would stay where I am now..maybe you can live together with your father..you know..rent a small apartment..that would be better..

& try to make an excuse that make you can't move..like..you can't adaptation because school is getting harder..you don't want to failed on school..can you use this excuse?

hope you can get through it..good luck.. ;)

& also good luck for kicking your dad's wife ***..hehe.. :p

btw, why can't you live with your brother?is it far away from where you live now?

Answer 7

im so sorry  =(

maybe move in with a friend?

or just stay where u r.

Answer 8

for one you need to go where your wanted. if your family is pushing you to go live with your mom you need to ask "Is it a problem with me living here?" and I mean really ask. if there's things going on and they don't want you to live with them then you should move. now if there isn't a problem then tell them once and for all you don't want to lie with her b/c you know how she is. there must be a reason you lived with your dad and not your mom in the first place right? honestly honey I think they want you out b/c family wont push you that way if they didn't mind you staying. with them but I'm not there so I don't know. talk to them see what they say then talk to your mom, tell her your rules. you are who you are your not gonna change your clothes, music etc. if she can't except that then there's your answer but you should give her a chance. and I don't mean go live with her then see i mean talk to her and maybe visit her on the weekends maybe even stay with her for christmas or spring break and slowly move in you know then she can get use to you and your ways and you can show her you are a great girl just the way you are. I hope it works out if you need anything else email me. this isn't a quick choice you have to give  it time and thought. you'll make friends anywhere you go and you can stay with your bf and if he doesn't understand then you'll find another bf. if you do ahve to move with your mom remember you can always move on campus to the campus you want.