I have real bad confidence&low self esteem?

Question

what should i do?

Answer 1

Okay, the thing is you have to ask yourself why you feel the way you do.  Is it a looks thing? Is it a career thing? Is it a social thing? Are you carrying around issues that you need to talk to someone about?  Yes, exercising and eating right will make you feel better.  But that does not mean you should be obsessed with vanity.  Shopping might make you feel good for a bit but that is a temporary fix and I would be wary of anyone offering that for advise (debt aint much fun).  Find a club with individuals that share the same interests as you.  They can be a great source to help you with what you need.  Bottom line is... Figure out why you feel the way you do and work on fixing it.  Talk to a friend, parent, mentor or anyone else you feel comfortable talking to.  DON"T BE AFRAID TO ASK FOR HELP!!! There are many resources and avenues you can explore.  If you are working somewhere, ask your HR department for their Employee Assistance Program.  If you are in school, talk to a councilor or teacher.

Answer 2

Well, first off. Your asking the wrong crowd. Other- Science or Science anything isn't the best place to folks with high confidence and overflowing self-esteem.  Try asking someone in Entertainment and Music. Some pretty hip characters in there. But what your looking for comes from inside yourself. Other than that, try buying a mini-skirt and some spike heels.  

Answer 3

This is not an appropriate question for a forum about science.

Answer 4

Keep practicing at your talking skills and try to speak up more.  Each time you do it you will get a little bit more confident.  You should always feel good about yourself and have a high self esteem.  Look at yourself and think of all the good things about you.  I'm sure theres not that many bad things about you, so don't let the tiny thing's get to you.  Just keep telling yourself good things about yourself and try talking more.  Hope this helps, Good luck!

Answer 5

find a guy who makes you happy and who you are able to be yourself with...he'll raise your confidence if you find the right one trust me

Answer 6

tell your self in the mirror that your beautiful, everday.

work out and take care of your self.

go on a shopping spreee, do your hair/makeup differently every once in a while. :D just stuff like that

p.s. maybe you should post a picture on here asking how to improve your looks?  but if you dont want to no one says youy have to haha

Answer 7

A couple of comments...

1.   "As a person thinks...so is he..."  you need to realize that your confidence & self esteem are products of your self talk...the things you tell yourself.  

2.  Once you realize that you are telling yourself WRONG things, then you can "fix" it.

I am guessing here, but I think you are  between 15-19 years old with a dominate parent who might be too negative...and they said or say negative things to you that you BELIEVED as a young person.

Sorry if I guessed wrong, but the root cause is the same.

Read "telling yourself the truth" by Baccus (spelling?).  Also, remember, as you think, so are you...it all starts with what you are telling yourself...time to replace the wrong "views" with the right ones...you are fearfully and wonderfully made, God loves you, Christ died for you, and you are made in His image....you are awesome, a work in progress, but awesome!

It starts in your mind (Romans 12:1-2).