I have recently gotten back in touch with an old boyfriend, my husband knows, it was actually a business deal

Question

we keep in touch, nothing going on, i just care for him as a good high school friend, we enjoy laughing about olds stuff we did. Am i wrong to keep this relationship open even though i know my husband don't particularly like it? I don't flaunt it in his face or anything. But he lives in the town he grew up in & see's all his old girl friends & they still speak, so am i wrong??

Answer 1

NO,I DONT THINK YOUR WRONG,,N SOUNDS LIKE YOUR HUSBAND IS JUST A LITTLE JEALOUSE,,,PEACE

Answer 2

Just say it"I am not through with this relationshipa nd keep wondering  what if.................................".

Tell me, do you want to STAY married?

Keep up this behavior and you won't be.

You KNEW before hand your husband wouldn't like it and pretty much gave him the finger.

I bet if he  had looked up one of his old g/f's you'd be having coniption fits allover the place hon.

There is an old saying and it is true,it goes like this:

"Rub 2 sticks together long enough and you WILL get a fire".

Answer 3

I don't see the point but if your husband keeps in touch with his old girlfriend than why doesn't he trust you?!  I would wonder about that...

Answer 4

Stay away from your ex b/f as far as possible. It just not because your husband doesn't like it, it because you're exposing yourself to temptation. Nothing going on right now doesn't mean nothing will happen in the future. I think even you can't guarantee it will not happen. Go back to your husband and have a happy life with him. Your husband deserve your love and attention more than your ex.

Answer 5

The relationship itself is not wrong, but if your husband doesn't feel comfortable with it, keep it very, very distant. I mean, be friendly when you happen to see him, but don't call him up or set up social visits. Best to respect your husband's wishes when it comes to befriending exes.

But obviously complete your business deal in a professional manner.