I have recently learned that some men do not like it when a women m*********s while having s*x...

Question

is this true for most men. i was told that it makes some men feel inadequate?

Answer 1

Well, think about it, if you start masturbating, that is telling your guy that he didn't do very well.  Don't make him feel like that...  Let him make you o****m, just let him know that you want him to do it, and he might have to keep thrusting until you do if you don't want him to feel bad about you having to m********e.

Answer 2

No way i have learned where and what to do and my hand is down there masterbating my mate as we are having s*x to help her along.

they love it

curtdude  

Answer 3

It's not a problem. As long as we can roll over and pass out when done , we could care less.  

Answer 4

i think any guy who doesn't like it is just strange. i myself see that it would be quite a turn-on, and i would love to watch them and possibly m********e with her, to her.  

Answer 5

i don't mind

Answer 6

i think its ok

Answer 7

Feeling inadequate is their problem....not mine.  I'm not about to lie there and be a sperm receptacle just so I don't hurt their feelings.  

Answer 8

While making love if my wife touches her C**t or pleasures herself in any way, it really turns me on!  

Answer 9

I don't mind at all. It's hot, even. Plus if I note how she does it, I may be able to copy her moves later and make things even better for her.

Guys who want to "give" their girls an o****m should start by asking them how they want to be touched and what turns them on.

If a guy feels inadequate in bed because the girl helps herself to an o****m during s*x with him, he probably has other problems, too.  

Answer 10

well if your gonna have s*x, while would u m********e?...then the guy feels lonely....

Answer 11

So it should do.

Serves them right if they can't learn where the clitoris is.

Many women simply cannot o****m through vaginal stimulation alone. There aren't that many nerves down there. It's not so much men's fault if they cannot give a woman adequate pleasure through vaginal stimulation, simply down to physiology. But they should just learn where the real source of pleasure is, and if they don't, what do they expect?

Answer 12

Yeah it is kinda wierd.........but i think it is okay!

Answer 13

if guys didnt like it then p**n wouldnt have men

it would all be lesbians

Answer 14

ok..I'm a girl so I really don't know

but I do it while I'm having s*x with my boyfriend

if the guy doesn't understand just explain to him that most girls CANNOT o****m from just vaginal stimulation

most need clitoral stimulation

and if they still don't like it try to help him understand what he needs to do to help you o****m

Hope this helps. =]

Answer 15

Women achieve o****m while stimulating the Clitoris.....*sigh* i wish more of you understood the workings of your own bodies.

Answer 16

while having s*x is wierd but i really couldn't care what shed doin

Answer 17

Some guys feel that it's their "job" to make a woman come and intercourse is the way to go ... problem, as we all know, is that it doesn't always happen that way!  Masturabation is just another tool in the box that you can use for sexual pleasure - sometimes it's fun to m********e one another or watch each other do it to themselves.  Watching your partners face while they m********e can be pretty cool if they really get into it.

Answer 18

Nick said exactly what I'm thinking.

It shouldn't be a problem - we want our partners to o****m, but of course it does mean "this isn't doing it for me", and if we get caught off guard or take it the wrong way (which can be very very easy) it can totally kill the mood, and in my case, throw us into a big rut of feeling inadequate.  

Answer 19

Too Bad

Answer 20

Personally I find nothing wrong with it. Makes s*x more enjoyable.