I have shed my old friends?

Question

Last night, I fell out with one of my cloeset friends. Today, the relationshiop broke down to its furtherst level, and I was informed by the friend that they hated me.

I now feel reborn in that I was unhappy in that friendship for a long time, and just want to share with you that feeling.

Its like a fresh feeling- I feel like a new person.

(And plus, its something my family wanted)

Answer 1

A fresh start.

Answer 2

at least you feel better about it!

good for you (:

Answer 3

listen I went through the same thing and what I found out that some people are so good to me and I never even noticed that. They are my new bffs and I love them We are so close with each other that it is like I never lost anyone at all. So look for friends who make you feel good.

Answer 4

I have recently done the same, bub.  It is better not to have friends than friends who exploit you and that you cannot trust.  There are plenty more very intteresting people out there.  h**l is other people, as Jean-Paul nearly said!

Answer 5

yes sounds like it

Answer 6

good for you , your friends should make you feel good if they dint you dint need them

Answer 7

I know what you mean.

For the longest time I had been so unhappy with certain friendships in my life.

I finally have moved on and made them realize that I deserve better in a friend and that new friends would really be the better options.

Good for you and moving on!

Answer 8

Rubber chicken

Answer 9

Sometimes it's the people closest to us, that are the most unhealthy influence.  Good for you!  

Answer 10

Good on you!! You dont need people like that in your life!! EDIT>>>> No, that doesnt make you weak, it makes you strong!!!! Their loss!!!

Answer 11

good skills i did the same 12 months ago. had been friends for ten years and felt like i had to compete, she always new best and had an answer for everything, her kids were always so much better than mine , it got to the stage that i just told her i no longer valued her as a friend and wanted nothing more to do with her and the minute i did i felt like a huge weight had been lifted from me, have not seen her since and dont miss her at all i wish her well and no harm but would never go back and now wonder how we were "friends" for so long so stick to your guns because you feel it is the right thing to do x

Answer 12

sometimes things happens. 1 of my old friends and i aren't friends anymore and i feel kind of better. sometimes when i tell other people about it for the 1st time, i get this weird feeling.

Answer 13

yea i know how you feel , like a block was lifted off your shoulder.. its a good feeling i know haah good luck in life