I have some problem with my boyfriend? what should i do? please help me, cause i love him

Question

I Went to my boyfriend's house without invitation and now he is very mad at me. i saw all his family, but he was angry because of that. Sincerely , i don't know what to do. I still love him.

Answer 1

Just tell him that you are sorry, and that you only wanted to see him and that you didn't mean to make him angry.

Good Luck

Answer 2

He'll get over it, just give it a little time. Let him know that you're sorry, and you didn't know that it would make him angry. But honestly, if he was angry about you meeting his family, that says something. How a guy treats his family members is how he will treat you in time when he gets comfortable with you. Watch out, sounds like he has a temper.

Answer 3

Why did you go to his house without an invitation?  

Has he told you before that he doesn't want you to come to his house?  And if he has told you that, why did you do it anyway?

I'm assuming you're both teenagers.  There are a lot of reasons that a teenage boy doesn't want his family to meet his girlfriend - he doesn't want them to know about her, he's ashamed of her, he's ashamed of his house or his family, he has another girlfriend and he's afraid a family member will let that slip out around you, or maybe he just isn't allowed to have a girlfriend and your coming over could get him in trouble with his parents.

You need to step back from this relationship and try to look at things objectively.  First, if he has asked you not to come to his house, you were absolutely wrong to do so and he can be as angry as he likes.  Second, if he doesn't want you to come to his house, he really owes you an explanation.  "I just don't want you to come over" isn't good enough.  Third, let him be mad and while he's mad, leave him alone.  You have family, you have friends, and you have a life - now go live it.  When he gets over being mad, he can come looking for you with an apology and an explanation.

You haven't given us any details that put this event in context.  So we don't know if he is always controlling and domineering and angry, or if this is the first time he's ever been angry with you.  But I have to tell you, if someone I loved got that angry with me over something that really shouldn't be a big deal, I'd kick them to the curb until they learned to think rationally and handle their anger.

Answer 4

If he got that mad, he may have something to hide!  Maybe he was embarrassed about the way his house looked or something.

Answer 5

i don't really think he should be mad at you for that. most people would like to be surprised like that. maybe he has a family background he doesn't want you to know about because he's embarassed.

talk to him about it, ask him why it made him angry.