I have some questions about s*x that I just dont want to ask my parents about?

Question

I know teenagers are suppose to talk to their parents about everyything but I just don't feel right talking to them about it.

So please answer them I'm 13 and they cant teach us this in school

1. Does the first time hurt (for the girl)?

2. How long does it take for birth control to start working?

3. How old were you when you lost your virginity?

4. Can you put more then one condom on for more protection?

Thank you so much

Answer 1

1. Does the first time hurt (for the girl)?

For my friends and I, it did.

2. How long does it take for birth control to start working?

Depends on the type.  The pill, the nuvaring and the patch all should have your protected after the first month of using.  So after your first period

3. How old were you when you lost your virginity?

I was 15, nearly 16

4. Can you put more then one condom on for more protection?

No, if you use more than one condom at one time, it actually increases the chance of them breaking.  Spermicide with the condom helps.  

I`m proud of you for at least asking someone about these things and that you looking on how to protect yourself.  

Remember, only condoms prevent std`s while having s*x.  3/4 people who have had unprotected s*x under the age of 25 have been exposed to hpv (genital warts)

Answer 2

1. i think so (but i wouldn't know)

2.idk

3.if ur having s*x at 13 then ur a s-l-u-t

4.no

Answer 3

1. It does.. ouch.. but also heard that if it's doggy style that it doesnt hurt so much.. and whoever i heard that from, lied! lmaoo

2. won't know.. neva taken the pill..

3. 21

4. Don't think you can..

Answer 4

1.  It hurts some more than others, but there's usually a bit of - at least - discomfort.  It varies based on whether the girl's v****a has been stretched at all prior to s*x, and if they have a hymen.  A note about a hymen - not all girls have it, and some that do break it with tampons or by masturbation.

2.  Err, I don't know for sure, but I seem to remember that the pill is fully effective after four weeks (3 weeks of the pill and 1 week of placebo)

3.  I was first penetrated (by a p***s) when I was 14, but I still haven't had full s*x.  That might not make sense to you, but it's a mental switch, not just a physical one.

4.  You can, but it's actually more likely that they'll both rip.  The friction and suction between the two materials cause more strain on the condom, and is actually less comfortable for the guy.

Answer 5

1. for some girls, i heard that it hurt big time. but for some it didn't hurt at all.  I guess it depends on who you do it with and if they take their time.

2. I'd say about a month.

3.still have it. waiting for the riight guy.

4.i wouldn't recommend it. for 'more protection' you should use the pill.

Answer 6

1. i think so

2. not sure

3. haven't yet

4. wierd

Answer 7

1. most girls yes, but not all

2. no clue - like mayb a few days

3. skip

4. no, that increases the chance of breakage. Use a condom, the pill, cream, and the day after pill - that's your best bet. Doubling up multiplys your risk.

Answer 8

It can, but it doesn't for every girl.

If you are speaking of the pill, you should take it for a month before you have unprotected s*x. Even on BC pills he should still wear a condom to prevent sexually transmitted diseases.

I was 17, way too young and very stupid.

I think you only use 1 condom ,anymore and your partner might lose some sensation.

Answer 9

1. sometimes, but it doesn't have to if it's all done properly.  

2. it depends on the type of pills, but usually 2 or 3 months

3 waaaay too young

4 no, that's even worse than none, it's more likely to slip off

http://www.scarleteen.com/ is a good web site for information like that, you might check it out some time

Answer 10

1. Yes

2. A month or so

3. Almost 18

4. You COULD if you wanted to, but using the contraceptive pill together with condoms is your best bet for pregnancy prevention

Answer 11

1 sometimes , it didn't for me but it does for others , it depends on how relaxed you are and how intact your Hyman is

2 for the pill you should wait a full cycle ( i got told anyway) but each method of birth control is individual so ALWAYS check the packaging or check with your doctor

3 i was 13 and i don't regret it

4 putting more than one condom on will not give you more protection, it may cause both condoms to tear.

additions ; when you loose your virginity ,try adding a condom safe, water based lubracant so to make it more confortable  also birth control only stop pregnacy not STD's and STI's so always use a condom

*edit* why the thumbs down??

Answer 12

First things first...

1. Does the first time hurt (for the girl)?

Answer: You're too young to find out.

2. How long does it take for birth control to start working?

Answer:  You're too young to find out.

3. How old were you when you lost your virginity?

Answer: That's not you're concern, what's wrong for some isn't right for you.



4. Can you put more then one condom on for more protection?

Answer: Abstinence is the best form of protection.

Further, more you're lucky I can't tell your parents for you. Raise a kitten instead.

Answer 13

1. Yes, because your v****a is still tight, and it will break your hymen.

2. This depends on which day of your period you started the Pill.

If you started it on day one of bleeding then it is effective straight off. If you started on day five then it is effective in 14 days time - any other starting point isn't safe until you start packet two of the Pill

3. I'm 14, and still a virgin.

4. Nope, it'd just rip through that one in the process as the first one.

Answer 14

1. Yes it can hurt.  It hurt for me the first time, other women it doesn't hurt.  

2. It was recommended to me to continue to use condoms for about a month after I started taking birth control.  (I am not saying stop using a condom, I was in a monogamous relationship at the time)

3. I was 21 and happy that I waited that long.  It really helped to be a little older, be more aware of myself and of others and how they act.

4. You can yes (I know people that do it, one of sheepskin over a latex condom) , but one is generally effective enough, and like others say the friction can cause them both to break.

Answer 15

1. for some girls its painful but others not just depends on  you chick.

2. i think its a month before it works properly.

3. i was your age but wish i had waited until i was married.

4. nope the friction will rip them both its best if your worried to use the pill or other contrecepion for women with a condom.

Answer 16

Ok and I understand you being embarassed I never asked my parents these questions either when I had them in mind:

1. It normally does hurt first time for a girl because thats when her hymen brakes.

2. It normally takes the day after you put it on for it to start working

3. 14

4.I wouldn't recommend it because it makes it easier for them to slip of that way just stick with 1.

Answer 17

1.does the first time hurt(for the girl)?

yesss it doess.

2.about a month

3.hmmm..14

4.noooo..it can break both of themm that

not safeee.

Answer 18

1. Sometimes

2. depends upon the birth control, usually one full cycle of medication.  Each one is different, this would be a question for your doctor or pharmacist.

3. Much older than 13.

4. No, a double condom actually decreases the effectiveness as the friction between the two condoms makes them more likely to tear.

Answer 19

1. It can hurt or feel uncomfortable. It is also not uncommon to bleed a very small amount afterwards. Everybody is different though.

2. After starting the birth control pill your doctor will advise you to use another form of birth control (such as condoms) for 2-4 weeks - depends on the doctor and the specific pill.

3. I was 16 - and I wish I had waited!

4. No. You should never, ever use more than one condom at a time because the friction between them can weaken them/break them, and cause it to be less effective than if you have just used one in the first place.

Answer 20

1. no it feeeeels good

2. 4.75 years

3. 8

4. sure, but if the first one aint workin, why would the second?

Answer 21

1.  It hurt the first few times with me. Naturally, it hurts for most girls, but not all. The vaginal is elastic (can change the depth and adjust to the size of insertion and go almost back to pre-pregnancy size); however, it doesn't do any of that quickly.  

Being relaxed and lots of foreplay does help in the process.  My best friend told me she didn't hurt and my other friend told me she didn't hurt. I did on the other hand. Doesn't mean it is a bad thing or you did something wrong.  It is just nature.

2.  Usually 7 days with consistant (not missed) a pill.  10 years ago, it used to be a month; however new updated technology and studies prove up to 7 to 10 days.  Yet, it is wised to use a back up method (condom for example) for the whole month of first pill pack. Some people continue to still use the condom just incase they forgot to take the pill or just as a second mind easier if they felt the condom failed or the pill failed, something woudl still be protecting either way.

3. I was 18.  I was the "last" out of my group of friends...by choice that is. however, I reqret it. So no matter what age, you have to realize you can't go back and change what you done. Don't allow your peers (friends or boyfriends) to pressure you into s*x.  It is a personal decision only you can fully make and will live with for the rest of your life.

4. No. It will cause friction and cause it to tear. It says no on a lot of condom packages to not double wrap.  1 condom is enough. If the 1 condom rips or has a hole, then shoud take it off and put another one on. That is the reason why people like to be on the pill incase if the condom rips during intercourse, at least they will also be protected by the pill.

Any more questions, can email me anytime.

Answer 22

1.  Yes

2. usually one cycle

3.  one month before my 17th birthday

4. NO.  In fact, the friction between the latex will make them both break.

Answer 23

1. Yes it does.

2. Depending on the pill, anywhere from 2 weeks to a month

3. A little personal, but thats ok. :) I was 27. I wanted to wait for the right guy. And since you are asking, i hope you are thinking of saving yourself till you are much older and for the right guy. :)

4. Hmmm.... maybe, probably not.

Answer 24

1.  Pure pleasure (but I'm a guy)

2.  Depends on what it is

3.  15.5

4.  Don't do that.

Answer 25

1.  It usually does, but wears off as time goes on.

2.  It depends on the birth control method.  Have boy use a condom along with it anyway to prevent diseases.

3.  16 but wished I had waited until 18.

4.  Yes.

Answer 26

ok, first question is it does hurt the girl because there  is a fold of mucous membrane which surrounds or partially covers the external vaginal opening called the "hymen, or cherry" when u have s*x this tears "popping the cherry". It takes i think a month or two for the birth control to start working and u need to take all that is directed, if u miss even one u could get pregnant, but its rare. 3rd I was 14 when i lost mine, im a guy. And I heard that if you put on two condoms at one time they will more than likely rub together and break, so i dont think so.

Answer 27

1. Does the first time hurt (for the girl)?

~ Yes it does! I hurt for me the first couple of times and I bled a little the first time. After that it gets better.

2. How long does it take for birth control to start working?

~ Usually about a month (more or less).

3. How old were you when you lost your virginity?

~ I was 18 (24 now). I regret who I lost it to, so be careful because it is a one time shot.

4. Can you put more then one condom on for more protection?

~ I would only use two max, but one condom paired with another form (i.e. the pill, spermicidal lube, etc) should be good enough.

Answer 28

Ok im 15 at the moment

1. LIKE ******* h**l

2. I dunno

3. 11...

4. Yes

And if you were thinking about having s*x at 13 yrs i am totally supporting you :D

Answer 29

1. aparently so

2. not sure

3. im legally allowed to have done that so,...

4. You could use the pill and the cream

Answer 30

I'll answer them top to bottom.

1. I think it does (Mother's words)

2. Not sure

3. Am still a virgin

4. NO. More than 1 will apparently end up breaking them both.

I hope I've helped you slightly.

Answer 31

1)all girls are different,my first time didnt hurt and some other girlfriend of mine said theirs did and didnt.everyone id different.

2)The pill usually take about 2 to 3 weeks to offically kick in but i would rather wait about 4 weeks to be on the safe side,the implant take about the same,im not topo sure about the injection but the injection has been known to make some girls steral,which isnt a good thing at all.

4)You can if you want too but nothing is 100% not even the pill.so many girls have fallen pregnanct on the pill,implant-becuase its not suted for everyone.and the injection.Condoms break and both can even break without you knowing before its too late.