I have strong urges for my step-sister, is this incest?

Question

Hi. I was wondering if it's considered wrong to want your step sister. (She's 14, I'm 17)

Now, we've fooled around before, but morals got in our way before we took things further. We love eachother, but we don't know if it's right.

So yahoo, help me here, is it okay to copulate with my step sister?

Answer 1

It's not incest, but it's not right, either.  Your parents should have thought of that before they got married.  But they didn't, so just keep your hands off each other.

Answer 2

nope sorry

Answer 3

if she is not blood kin h**l yes its ok to do her:)

Answer 4

It'll be an interesting story to tell your friends and kids about how mommy and daddy met. lol. But seriously, you guys are not blood related- only on paper. You basically look at it as two people fall in love- oops our parents love eachother too and got married. d**n! lol. No, it's not wrong, and i'm pretty sure when you two are of legal age you can get papers and stuff to be able to get married.

Answer 5

This is a suprisingly common thing. I suppose if your parents are compatible, then you are similar to your parents, so r more likely to be compatible, which is why some people fall for their step siblings. It's not strictly incest, as you're not blood related, and I personally don't have a problem with it, but I think you're both (especially her) too young to really know your feelings. If something happened between you, it could really affect ur home life, esp. if it went sour.

Answer 6

You have strong urges to go to jail for rape of a minor.

You have strong urges to get her pregnant.

Your parents consider you and your step-sister as siblings, so they won't accept a relationship will never fly.

If you are not blood relatives, it is really now incest though.

Wake up before you do something that you will regret the rest of your life.

Answer 7

If you're not related by blood, I don't think so (I don't think it's wrong). I just think she's way too young to be fooling around with you. She's not even fully developed sexually yet at 14.

Give it a few years and see if you two still "love each other".

:) Also....even if you're not related by blood I don't think your parents will be much cool with it. But it's just like if you two got together BEFORE you're your two parents got together and made you step siblings. They just got married before you two met and "loved" each other.

Good luck, mate. I say be patient and wait (as in keep it in your pants for now). IF you're not related by any blood.

Answer 8

While biologically you are nto related I gurantee your parents would be pretty upset if they found out. Seeing that she is only 14 I would be pretty careful, she is relaly still very young. And in reality so are you. People in general will probably frown on it but I also thing it depends on how long you have been "siblings" if you just recently became a blended family it is a little less freaky then if you have grown up together for the past 10 years or so...

Answer 9

Some class half sisters as step sisters, so do u mean someone related to you by marriage, or same (one) parent.

If its just marriage i think its ok, the age thing is a little questionable. But , I personally think if you aren't blood related it cant be too much of a problem.

Good Luck, I just need to know more details x*x

Answer 10

Are you guys slightly blood-related by any chance? As in sharing one parent or something.

If yes then that's unfortunate and definitely considered incest and wrong. If no, then it's acceptable and you guys will have to work it out.

Answer 11

Is she only your sister by marriage or is she by blood? If its by blood then its wrong. By marriage then you guys wont burn in h**l.  

Answer 12

That might be WRONG and age!!!!! Oh wow, When u breakup it will be wierd!

Answer 13

yes and no. mostly no. plus it'll be illegal in a year (in most states)

Answer 14

wow well im not sure if you love each other then i guess its ok noone can tell you whats right and whats wrong

Answer 15

Yeah it's incest.  Yeah it's gross.  And yeah it's dumb.  Thank God you have SOME morals!  Ugh.  And your the guy who get's turned on  by cats... no offense dude but you have some problems.  I would talk to a Phsycologist about this.  I am not trying to be mean, I am bering honest.

Answer 16

You are over 16, and she is under 16. That means that you could be accused of statutory rape. That means that even if she defends you and says she wanted it too, you will still be found guilty under the law.

Technically it isn't incest, but she is very young, too young. Find a girl your own age.

Answer 17

Legally, whether you are related by blood or marriage makes no difference.

The relationship makes it incest. Her age makes it rape in most states.

Answer 18

14!?!?! she's still a baby and has no idea what she wants. be a responsible big brother and DON'T GO THERE.

Answer 19

talk  to  someone

Answer 20

i don't think its wrong as she isn't blood related to you but everyone will have there beliefs about the situation.

Answer 21

Don't let ANYONE tell tou it's wrong, if you both want to then there's nothing bad at all about it.

Answer 22

If you have s*x with your step sister it will not be incest, so you don't have to worry about that being a sin. You as closely related to each other as your two present parents are and you should be able to have children, if that is what you might decide when you are adult.

Your 14 year old sister is certainly past puberty and the two of you are able to decide for your selves if you want to have sexual intercourse. While 14 is young, she is able to enjoy copulation if you are tender and prepare her (with foreplay and oral s*x) for a wonderful experience if this will be her first time. She will remember it for her life time.

You need to make sure you do not get her pregnant and otherwise keep your relationship secret till you can marry if that is what you want. Birth of a child before her age of consent could lead to charges of statuary rape in states where that is greater than 14, so that is the reason to be careful and use birth control. Her mom (or yours) should have taken her to an OB/Gyn for a female exam and gotten her started on the pill or whatever. If this is not possible, many schools will help young girls with birth control and keep it private from your parents by law.

I envy the two of you at this stage in your lives -- but I still have memories of being the first for my sister on her 14th birthday. We both enjoyed our relationship in bed for many years till we married others (we do still occasionally have s*x together). We learned a lot, we grew up and became better people and lovers.

Your love for each other is right and moral if you believe that it is. May you make the right decision for the both of you.

Answer 23

It's not incest because you are not blood related. However, many people may look down on you if you were together but it's up to you. Also your parents might not agree or understand. But it also probably depends on where you are from - I'm from UK and it isn't considered incest here.

Answer 24

No, no, no, no, NO!  You are opening up a big old can of worms here.  Stay away from her.  She's only 14, and hasn't the experience you have.  I would strongly urge you to go live with your other parent for a while if that's possible.  You're too young to make this kind of decision, and so is she.  If this is a relationship that's meant to be, then give yourselves a few years (5 at least) so you can both grow up.  What would happen to you if your relationship was found out by either one of your parents?  They'd get you outta Dodge so fast your head would spin.  In one more year when you're 18 and still messing around with her, it will be considered "Statutory Rape", and you will have to register as a s*x Offender for the rest of your life.  Is that something you want?  Please don't pursue this relationship.  Talk to your parents and see what they have to say.  Good luck.

Answer 25

THATS DISGUSTING!

youve fooled around before? ew!

shes now part of your family!

your 17 you should know whats right!

ew!

Answer 26

It is a little strange, the whole age thing. I think that is wrong, even if u aren't blood related. If you ever got married and had kids their grandparents would be married, normal in some situations if it is mom's mom and dad. But it would be mom's mom and dad's dad married or vice versa. A little wrong in my opinion

Answer 27

If its by blood then you better stay away!! lol. If she isnt blood then you are ok. I would recomend to just stay away from her because of the age difference. You are only 17 and would want to explain anything to parents since you are blood now. What would you do if by any chance she were to get pregnant? Just stay away. Hope this help.  

Answer 28

Most people would think it's wrong, but I don't.  I started fooling around with my older brother when I was 9 (he was 13).  we first had s*x when i was 12.  

I don't see anything wrong with it as long as she doesn't get pregnant.  You (or her) can email me if you want to talk.

~Moyra

Answer 29

As long as she isnt your father or mothers biological daughter then it's ok, but at 14 then you shouldn't be sticking your wang anywhere.  It's classed as rape!