Hello everyone,
It's been four years now that I have had bulimia, my entire body has become shockingly dissimilar to the one in years past. Is it worth it to keep going? I have recently gained 10 lbs of weight and feeling a little higher in spirits, but I have heard from a fellow anorexic that even though you can bring your body back to form -- in weight -- it will not do a l**k of good in terms of the longterm damage I've done.
Is there really any point to continuing? I'm living everyday to make my mother a little happy, because she's supported me for the last 22 years of my life. I have been an invalid... for the last 8 years (14, if you're counting the number of years ago my father left us).
I want to make my mother proud. She's single handedly raised me; there's nothing more I would like to do than to see her smile. I feel so bad that I can't help around the house (I do all the chores, when my sister and brother don't do anything) in terms of maintenance and repairs, but I try my best.
I tell her everyday that if she were ever to want me to commit suicide because I cause her too much grief, I would do it for her. She cries when she hears this, yet I feel it may be necessary to bring her some happiness. I feel like killing myself (for her) would be my greatest gift.
I'm not suicidal, just realizing the futility of all my years of pain and punishment upon myself have already destroyed what little I had in years past. It would be no big loss, my family would go on and so would the world.
Thanks,
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