I have the biggest crush on this girl?

Question

I have the biggest crush on a friend of mine but we never hang out... i have asked her several times if she would like 2 go 2 movies/party but shes always has an excuse. I need to get her attention what can i do? any ideas??

Answer 1

Maybe shes just uncomfortable with just the two of you hanging out. Maybe hangout/go out in a group. Don't give up!

Answer 2

I'm gonna save u trouble...she's knows you like her, but she's not feeling the same way about you...that's the excuse part.  Good news, I'm sure your really great, and will find someone else who you really like.   Spend your time doing something else worth while.

Answer 3

Alright, well the way your going now seems to be scaring, her off, or at least making her not interested. Yes. So to change that, find out what she likes, and go in a group. If she is into music, find a favorite band to go see locally. If she has church on wednesdays, go with her and couple friends. Make suree 100% your asking her to things she loves. If she is a huge harry potter fan, arrange a group of friends to go see the new one.

It doesn;t have to be those exactly, but it does have to be somthing she likes. Let her know, your alright with being just friends for now, and get closer to her, until you make another move in the direction of dating.

Answer 4

maybe she doesnt like you back?

not to sound mean but she probably just wants her space.

Answer 5

Sounds like you have already asked her out several times and she has not been interested.  If she were interested she would have made arrangements to be able to go with you. Of course, that also depends on how old you are. Is she even allowed to date/have boyfriends? Maybe that is the issue. If you feel comfortable, just ask her if she would ever consider going on a date with you or if she only considers you as a friend. Go in with the full knowledge that she may say just friends, then act accordingly. That way, you don't waste your time pining over a girl that is not interested, and can go find the girl that adores you and wants to be your girl. There are many out there, but you have to keep an open mind. If you stay focused on this girl, you may miss an opportunity to meet someone even more special. Then just be friends with this girl, who knows, maybe one day her feelings will change, but maybe not. Maybe she'll be able to hook you up with a pretty friend?

Answer 6

if she always has an "excuse" then it sounds like she's not that into you. i hate to break it to you. if you asked her out and she suggested an alternate date then u'd have a shot, but if she just says "i'm busy, i have to_____" then you've already gotten her attention and she doesn't want things to go in that direction. try being her friend and she may fall for you on her own terms,. u can't force it.

Answer 7

Be honest with her. Most girls appreciate honesty. ask her if she is ok. if she asks why tell her you like her, and ask her if she feels the same. tell her she never seems like she wants to hang out, and ask if its you.

Answer 8

do u have another friend who is dating somebody? say "my friend, his girlfriend and i are going to a movie, wanna come?" casually. then if she feels more comfortable with you, you two can hang out more, and maybe she might show some interest.

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