I have this 5 year old sister and she is my responsibility! so what can i do with her ?

Question

what can i do with my 5 year old lil sis i have to look after her coz my moms dead!

and its difficult coz i class her as my own child so i have her and a little boy( who is my proper son) and i am pregnant so what can i do with her?

Answer 1

I'm sorry if i'm not understanding this right, but you asked a question before that you are bored with nothing to do and now you have 2 little kids to take care of and you are pregnant??? When do you find time to be bored? and How old are you, if you don't mind?

5 yr olds need time and attention like any child. You can read her books, go shopping for your soon to be born baby. That age should love newborns. Make her feel like part of your family and don't remind her that she is just yor responsibility. You will hurt her feelings for life that way.

What happened to your mom? Do you have any other relatives to help you around.

Answer 2

love her as your own child..

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Answer 3

Love her and protect her.

I don't really know what you mean by what should you do with her? You say that you class her as your own? Do what you do with your other kids.

Where's your father? Or any other family, you don't really sound like you are ready to have a kid (let alone 3). Maybe try and get some help from your family.  

Answer 4

You can choose your friends, but you can't choose your family.  Keep your sister let her have a chance in life, especially being able to grow up with your kids.  It's unfortunate your mum has passed away, sorry to read that.  But you could make a difference for this little girls life.  At least if she is with you, you know she won't have a chance of being abused.  If you put her into foster care, her chances are much greater.  

Answer 5

girls can sit and concentrate longer than boys, so try watching a girly movie with her (or maybe something else she might like) or you could sit down with her and make things...

like princess crowns or oragami stuff or.. i dunno..

doin fashion parades are fun and so is dancing and cooking and goin to the park

hope everthing turns out okay for you and your family :)

Answer 6

raise her as your own? I don't really understand your question. What do you do with her? Lve her care for her raise and guide her through life

Answer 7

How old are YOU? o.O

Hopefully you're at least in your 20's my god that's a lot of responsibility.

Treat them how you would want to be treated if you were a child. Think back on how you used to have fun as a kid, feed them properly (lol), and don't let them veg out all day in front of the TV because that will make them get bad habits and future obesity from lack of exercise.

As for emotional needs because of their mother, if I were in that situation I'd want to be comforted when I needed it. If I wanted to talk about it, being a little kid I'd probably ask very blunt questions like "Why did she have to leave?" Give them time to cope with the fact that they live with you now and let them know that you will do your best and won't leave them.

Well hopefully you don't leave them. I hope you don't just because they're not your kids. Not trying to say that in an offending way at all.

But good luck I hope I helped a bit :)

Answer 8

she's a little girl..just take good care of her as your own..u cannot give her away as well i think..since you are the closest relative she got...

Answer 9

Not sure what kind of answer youre looking for here... All I can say is that you should for sure love her and care for her just as you would any young child as she can't take care of herself and it wouldn't be right to treat her like she did something wrong when it wasn't her fault. Maybe ask some other family for help and support or that they might want to take her for visits every once in a while so you can have time without her there for a little bit, it might help with the stress of the situation.  

Answer 10

face your responsibilities.. we all have things to deal with and this is yours. She is your sister but in light of the fact that you have effectively taken custody of her due to the passing of your mother, you have a difficult dual role (mother and sister). Love her and I am sure it will all work out fine.