I have this cruel friend???

Question

I have this friend well I dont know if I should even call her that. But anyways she and other girls are ALWAYS making fun of me. People say I could model and that I am really pretty but these girls say I am ugly. I live in this nice two story house with a big yard and a pool and they live in this one story house with a small yard and no pool and they are always saying my yard is tiny, my pool is to small to have a party in all kinds of things like that. But the thing that has stung the most happened yesterday. Well about 2 weeks ago I went to this girl's (lets call her sally) b-day party and 4 boys asked me to dance so just wanting to have a good time I danced with all of them. My friend sat in the corner and no one asked her to dance. She didn't seem like she cared since she hates dancing so I didn't think to much of it. I mean I did feel a little bad for her because I felt like they weren't dancing with her because she is overweight but I didn't think she really cared. But yesterday she told me that she talked to Sally last night and Sally told her that the cutest boy that I danced with was talking about how ugly I was and how my friend that I went to the party with was WAY prettier than me and why would such a pretty girl have such an ugly friend. It just really hurt when she told me that. Why would she tell me something like that?? Why does she insist on putting me down???I don't go around asking if I am pretty why do they have to tell me I am ugly??? How do I get her to stop putting me down in a nice way???

I have tried not talking to her it just makes things worse she gets all of her friends to harass me everyday.

Answer 1

shes so not worth the trouble! i would so ditch her or shun her out. make a new group or find some new friends!

Answer 2

Dump them and move on. I know it is hard. But if they tease you, just ignore them. They are jealous so they are of course going to try to put you down. You can get new friends that dont harrass you everyday and dont put you down. I bet the boy didnt say that. If he danced with you it was because HE LIKES YOU, not hates you.  

Answer 3

this girl is obviously a disease in your life. i would cut her out b/c it is obviously an unhealthy relationship.

just tell her: I'd appreciate it if you would stop being rude to me. If you were a true friend you would stop. Have a talk with her (if you can). Maybe someone is making fun of her nad she is making fun of you to make herself feel better. There is still no excuse for that atrocious behavior to someone you call a friend.

if worst comes to worst break up with. she isn't a friend. make better ones

Answer 4

thats not a real friend...tell her to stop...If she doesnt, make her history.

Answer 5

shes using u.

just tell her to not be friends with her if she makes fun of u.

Answer 6

d**n girl,

be grateful for what you've got.

guys compliment you, and want to dance with you.

whatever you've got, they like it.

and obviously if they liked your friend, they'd have asked

her to dance instead of you, right?

by the sounds of it, they're jealous (these girls)

because they're not as pretty,

dont get as much ttention from the guys..

and they don't have a cool home like yours.

if i were you..

rub it in there faces.

don't let them get you down, its what they want.

show them that you can be an amazing individual,

that you don't need them, and they're not affecting

you life, not in the slightest bit. (yn)

hope i helped. ♥ x