I have this full of herself friend?? welll i think shes my friend?

Question

i have this friend who is super nice to me (sometimes) and everyone else

but idk if shes really my friend? she lies about everything just to make herself look kool and popular (i mean it works she is like really kool and popular) she also never talks about anything but

herself. i try to talk about

something going on with me or something totally amazing i did

but all she ever says about it is "ya sure" and then goes on again talking about herself. and sometimes shes says stupid stuff to make me jealus soemthing about how my boyfriend or crush was totally checking her out or stuff like that u know !! and shes tells me that i am her bff but when other people ask who her bff is she say haylee who is this older more mature, really pretty, huge b***s kinda girl. and one thing she can not stop talking about is haylee. shes always like guess what i did with haylee. omg i had soo much fun with haylee. i dont even thing haylee likes her shes like 4 years older then her and she really close with her brother and shes more her bros frined then hers soo idk any good advice? is she really my friend??

Answer 1

She isn't a friend when she can't be bothered to listen to anything you say, she lies and you still wanna hang out with her? Ditch her and find some real people!

Answer 2

I don't think that is how a friend should treat each other. I mean she should at least listen to the stuff you said and if its good then she should be happy for you but if its bad, she should at least give advise or help you out. Telling you what she did was just to get you jealous and kind of a show off.

I think you should stop hanging out with her and find a new friend. I know sometimes it is hard to lose a friend because they will keep coming to you. It is for your own good though.

Answer 3

She is a L*****n with Hayley <3  

Answer 4

hun, that doesnt really sound like a bff. you need someone who's actually gonna LISTEN to ya. i mean that's a true friendship... communication!

you need to tell her how you feel. if she dont listen than i think you can pretty much see her true colors

p.s i would ask haylee if she even knows who she is.

i would laff if haylee said "who the heck is that"

lol i'm laffing just thinking about it. i mean my  sis is 3 yr.s older than me and she mostly hangs with her friends at school. that girl is FOUR yrs. older. either they are REALLY good friends or your "bff" just likes to make herself seem greater than she is

Answer 5

This girl is a complete waste of your time. I have a "friend" like this. I tried to ignore her and moved to a new city, and guess what- she followed me. Its all about her ego. She needs to feel like everyone around her wants to be her. She needs to feel like the center of attention at all times. She will reel you in just enough to make you comfortable so she can squash all your confidence with a few choice words. She wants to feel like you are worried that she will steal your boyfriend. She thrives on the assumption that all girls are jealous of her.

When in fact, this girl is an airhead. Most men are attracted to her looks or her evasive personality, but deep down there is not much there. Dont worry about it. There are a few men and people in the world who are genuine enough to see through her c**p, and those are the people who are worth your time.

Be the bigger person. Walk away quietly. Dont make a big deal about it, just make the decision that you yourself are more worthy of your own time than she is. She may not show it, but it will kill her inside.  

Answer 6

NO, she is only someone you know... that's 'bout it

Answer 7

well she is not your friend if she does that.if i was you then i would not be her friend.are talk about with her.she is not your friend if she is going to do that to you. well i have to go.LOL.PS.i hope yo pick me ple........................................ i also hope it helps you alot.

Answer 8

Wow first you need to ask yourself what is a friend....now does that apply here?

I just wanted to help you because you went through all that trouble to type all of that.

Answer 9

omg i HAD a friend just like that......

dump her.....

shes only using yu......

she said im her bff but that was the biggest like of all....

she just wants pple to think she has lots of friends, maybe thats y shes hanging out with yu....

Answer 10

Just another wanna be.