I have this man now we are having s*x without commitment,ihow can i remove this feeling.im fallin n love?

Question

I have this man now we are having s*x without commitment,ihow can i remove this feeling.im fallin n love?

Answer 1

Depends on how you look at love.  In my opinion, if you don't really like the guy, but you have a "feeling" anyway then you should not let him use you like that.  As a male I know that all we want is s*x while females want a relationship.  From your description I'm not sure what you mean, but it seems like he just wants your body not a relationship, hope that helps a little. Good luck :)

Answer 2

stop having s*x with him is a good place to start...

Answer 3

Gwyn maybe this might help-when i was growing up my father told me never to sleep over and also never let them sleep over that way you avoid falling in love-its worked for me.I hope this helps you in some small way-Good Luck!!

Answer 4

Ask yourself if you are "falling in love" because the s*x is great or does this person actually have other traits worth loving?

After 16 years with the same person (and other experiences), I can tell you, s*x changes over time with the same person.  You can have periods where the s*x is okay, but the company is better.  My personal experience has been this...in the beginning, the s*x was marathon and we were "in love", then it was tapped out for a number of years.  YES, it was a strain on the relationship, HOWEVER, the s*x NOW is stellar and the relationship even stronger and happier and we truly love each other.

If he has no other redeeming qualities (ie:good conversation, good provider, thoughtful, sensitive to your other needs, etc.) then maybe it really is just s*x and therefore your feelings of "in love" are just your hormones overflowing and there is no way the relationship can last and be good.  It has to be mutual, 100% from both people.  If he is just in for the s*x, it won't ever matter how "in love" you feel, you won't ever get anything else from this guy.

PS USE PROTECTION so neither of you gets stuck with each other, unless that is what you BOTH want.  Bringing innocent people into the situation (ie: babies) is never a good idea, as they get hurt worse than either of you will if you decide to call it quits.

Best of luck!

Answer 5

Please come to the real world. Donot do any thing without thinking. Life donot come again. Live life with honor ans respect. Please go to your some close relative or elder sister or relative and discuss your problem and save your life for your family and live with happiness with your family.

Answer 6

Why do you want to remove the feeling? What is wrong with falling in love? Unless one of you is already in a relationship just go with it..enjoy it. There is nothing better in life then falling in love. But, if you want to keep the feelings out of the s*x, limit the amount of time you two talk and interact when not having s*x. It is the day to day part of our lives that cause us to fall for someone. And, when having s*x, try non-intimate positions like Doggy style or the scisors method. The lack of looking into each others eyes and that sharing of intimacy will help seperate the heart from the p***s.