I have this problem with my bff???/?

Question

ok so my bff(best friends) when we are the 2 together me and her she acts ok but then when another bf(best friend) of ours comes with us my bff just leaves me kind of alone and goes with my bf... and they start saying things about boys (girlie stuff) in eachothers ears ..... i try to get in the conversation but they just act like this:::::: they tell me what they where saying and keep on saying things in eachothers eears without involving me! i really hate this

do you think they are really best friends and what should i do?

i think that if i tell them how i feel they will like say she is so annoying!

Answer 1

Don't be afraid just talk to your best friend first and then the other separately or together about how you feel about them leaving you out of conversations and stuff.And if they still continue to do it,give them a break.Be Brave and talk it will pay off!

Answer 2

This has happened to me!

Sounds like she's not the best friend.  You should think about what qualities are really important in a friend, and I think you will find that she does not fit them.

Talk with her.  If she is a real friend she will understand.  

In the meantime, don't stoop to her level.  You deserve better!

Answer 3

You should be able to go to her and explain how you feel. If she really is you best friend, she understand how you feel and see about involving you. However, if not, than she is not the same bf you had before.