I have this recurring dream and it seems so real?

Question

I'm getting married in July and I have this constant dream that my fiance leaves me and our daughter. That he just moves out and doesn't care about us anymore. It's weird bc in my dream I'm always saying that I knew it was going to happen bc I dreamed it all the time. I would think this is just bc the wedding is coming up but it quit for a long time and over the weekend we were at a wedding where his ex girlfriend was and thats when the drems started back again. I hate them I always wake up with a big knot in my stomach!!!!! So I guess after all this rambling my question is do you think its just gettibng nervous about the wedding or are my dreams trying to tell me something about him and his x?

Answer 1

hey i have a dream which feel so real

i dreaming i standing on a cliff then all the sudden my school bully push me and i falling, and i going to the forest and then the last thing i saw before i woke up is the ground, i woke up freak out and i mean FREAK OUT i felt everything, the air blowing at me when i falling, the hand when a bully push me everything felt so real

Answer 2

This is coming out from your anxiety.  Projecting your fiance leaving  you basically mean that you are foreseeing something that may be happening in your life.  In other words,  you do not want that happen, so you projected the scene first to make readiness in you .  

Sometimes our subconscious mind is tricky, but that is how it works.    You are in a half aware situation, you knew it was going to happen, and that is a conflict feeling in you.  In other words, you have some readiness in you and you want to face the worse situation.  

The stress about the wedding does have a lot to do with your dream.  You may be feeling helpless and you may need some one to talk to get off some of the worries in your mind.

Recurring dream means unresolved issue, that means in  your case, your mind is not settled down with things that may become reality.

Answer 3

I think this is just natural concerns, you may keep them under wraps normally, but the subconcious wants to bring them out to deal with. you obviously are lacking a bit of confidence or you wouldn't be concerned about the ex. There is this thing about exes isn't there??  Perhaps you feel their relationship was never finished properly? If I was you, in a quiet moment, approach the subject and say when you saw her last week, you had this awful feeling in your tummy. Explain you trust him, but just need to tell him how it made you feel seeing her. As long as you don't make it sound like you are accusing him of wanting to see her, he should be willing to talk to you about it.  She is bringing up feelings of insecurity in you for some reason, so before you talk to him, try and work out why.  Remember  he wouldn't be going through the complicated business of getting married if he thought there was a chance of going back with her.  Did you ever go out with someone who ditched you for the ex? In which case it is just a bit of baggage you need to leave outside the back door. Look forward to your wedding, you will have the best time, forget the worries, the sun will be shining, your man loves you and your little girl is lucky to have 2 smashing parents. I wish you all you wish for yourself x

Answer 4

Just talk to him.

Tell him about your dream. And tell hins your conserned about your relationship because of his ex.