I have to go through others to find out about my own family?

Question

My mother doesn't tell me anything anymore so when I do find out things I find it out from friends, the day of the event, etc. She is always talking down about me to people who don't give two craps about me, and she is always making me cry with her riduclous behavior towards me. I'm getting tired of this. What should I do to tell her I hate the way she treats me?

Answer 1

This is a really hard question to answer because I'm going threw the same thing right now. My mom told me her self that I was a mistake. And I don't know how to confront her about me being a mistake, its hard for me and I don't know how to deal with it. I stay up and cry every night because I just don't understand why it had to be me the mistake and not any one else in my household seeing how my mom has four kids and I'm the youngest!!!! I'm just tired of it. Sorry that I am just spilling my guts to you but your question just hit a emotional  nerve for me.