I have trust issues?

Question

And I don't know how to get rid of my problem. I've been w/my bf for 5 years. We started out when we were 16 and had a very rocky start. We didn't get really serious til we were 18. He used to talk to many girls between those two years and we were off and on. Well he did a full 360 and he's the perfect guy. He's definately not a cheater but 4 some reason I don't want him around any female. I don't like him talkin to another one or gettn too close. I snoop in his email and phone and I find nothing and when ido find something it turns up 2b nothing. I trust him but I'm always looking for a flaw or a sign of him cheating... what do I do?

Answer 1

Well sometime its like that because you have done something wrong so you think he might be doing something wrong. Are sometime your friends have bad relationships so you compare it to yourself and it makes you go crazy but just calm a little before you loose him.

Answer 2

Oh my god, you sound just like me, exactly! Im still trying to find something, and I'm 37 weeks pregnant with my bf's child, so you would think my mind would be at ease.

I'd just like to think that he has the same mindset as me, and wouldnt do anything to ruin the relationship.

Television and society doesnt help, everywhere you turn there are people cheating on each other, having affairs etc etc. That doesnt help.

I guess in the end we just have to trust them, and if something bad does happen, we'll just have to roll with the punches, which hopefully wont happen.

Same thing, checking phone and everything, haha wierd. We must have the same insecurities. I also get really tense when he talks to other girls.

Answer 3

YEA I AGREE WIT ALICIA BUT U DO IT CUZ UR ACTUALLY INTO HIM NOW && CARE ABOUT HIM && DONT WANNA LOOSE HIM ITS NORMAL BUT EVENTUALLY U WILL STOP DOIN IT I WENT THRU IT UR AFRAID OF GETTIN HURT THATS Y