I have two kids a 2 year old and a 4 year old.?

Question

If I pay child support but I am never around will they ever want to see me or will they just care about the money? Will they want to live with me? Will they nag there mom about seeing me?

Answer 1

The money isnt enough....they need there father to not just your money!! but ill tell you atleast your paying that...my ex-isnt paying but yet wants visitation....even every other weekend is btr than not at all!!

Answer 2

child support is not enough. they are going to need emotional support from their dad. if you don't care about them give you parental rights up.  

Answer 3

If you just pay child support but are never around, they won't know you.  I'm sure they will wonder why their daddy doesn't want to be around them and it will have serious repercussions on their psyche.   No they won't want to live with you if you are never around.  I don't know about nagging their mom to see you.  I'm sure they would have questions, but it will make them feel completely unimportant to you.  They are your kids.  Don't be a deadbeat.  Just because you pay child support doesn't mean you wouldn't qualify as a deadbeat dad.