I have two questions? ?

Question

what does it mean to have a dream where your boyfriend cheats on you? is it paranoia or could it really be happening?

second... what does it mean to have a dream of making out with a guy? ( i have a boyfriend who i LOVE but i am making out with someone else?) could it mean in the future things will change and i will find someone else? im so confused!!! why do these dreams always happen!!! they used to be about my boyfriend and i but now things are changing i dont understand i am only attracted to him in reality! and i know he isnt cheating on me but could it mean in the future he will?!!? :(

Answer 1

Relax the dream isn't about your boyfriend.  Its about you and he symbolizes something in yourself.  Making out with a stranger may mean that your feelings are changing on many issues not just a relationship.

During a quiet time before bed sit down and relax and think about how you feel about different things including your relationship. Try to set aside the feelings the dreams cause because they have nothing to do with that specific relationship.  Consider your job,schooling, other family members, a co worker, etc.  

Also try to identify what it is that you see in your boyfriend that he symbolizes in your dreams.  I suggest that your relationship is ok if you are so concerned.  Don't let the dreams fool you.  They're there to help.  

Answer 2

You think he's not cheating on you, but you can't be sure, can you?

I don't think you trust this boyfriend, and you don't trust your own heart to be faithful to him.

Then again, maybe it's just a dream.

TX Mom

Answer 3

Sometimes dreams are telling you something more complex. Like for instance you may feel like your life is changing and that you feel insecure about change. Maybe your boyfriend and your relationship with him, is playing your comfort and security in the dream. I do however, believe in intuition. But if you aren't having these doubts during the day, I would say it's really just your comfort zone is changing and your not quite comfortable about it yet.

However, if you felt upset after the first dream and interpreted it for face value maybe you felt jealous and it opened up some hidden desire to be with someone else. It all sounds like comfort worries. Good Luck