I have used my coping skills and I still want to kill myself but I don't want to tell my mom?

Question

I don't want to my mom because all she will say is that it's because she is mad at me and she is sick with me doing this because I feel like this all the times and I have made over 30 attempts to do it I really need help because I might really do it and I have a plan

Answer 1

You have tried to kill your self over thirty times and it hasn't worked. It isn't ment for you to die yet. Pray to god and call 1800suicide

Answer 2

Take a walk

Take a walk every time you feel depressed and find your thoughts drifting toward the fantasy of suicide.

I was suicidal once, and called a Hot Line (The Good Samaritans - find them on line or ask 411) and they told me to take a walk.  I was horrified at their terrible advice - but it turns out that it would have been the right thing to do after all.  Walking can help you to refocus.

Answer 3

You get one chance in this world why waste it on trying to get out of here, that day will come soon enough, too soon for some.

If you really feel that bad go seek professional help, there are people there to help, even talking about your problems can help.

When you hit rock bottom there is only one way to go and you should always remember that this too shall pass, if there's one thing ive learnt, time will heal all and nothing is as bad as it seems.

Go have some fun, spend some time with your friends, if you have none go make some, take a exciting job or find a hobbie cause if you do what you are thinking the one that will be destroyed will be your mum, you wont feel anything anymore but your mum will, the ones who are left are the ones that hurt so bad after.

Look after your family, go ask for help and have fun, thats my advice.

Answer 4

The type of help that you will need will depend entirely on what it is that causes your depression. If it is something in your life, professional therapists (or maybe a really smart friend) can help you. You can change your own life.

If your depression is caused by the state of the world...nothing will ever comfort you. The world will never change.  

Answer 5

www.jesusisreal.org

Answer 6

Please talk to somebody ..... NOW!!!!

If you can't talk to your Mum, then please talk to a professional about it.  I don't know which country you are in, but here in the UK we have an organisation called the Samaritans.  I have attached a link.

Speak to them and tell them how you are feeling.  I promise you that you won't always feel this way.  You say you have made more than 30 attempts.  It sounds like you've been unhappy and unable to cope for a long time.  You are not alone, you can be helped - let people try.

Click on the link and talk to somebody now please.

Answer 7

GET A LIFE! STOP THINKING ABOUT YOURSELF AND FIND AN ACTIVITY TO GET YOUR MIND OFF YOUR SUICIDE ATTEMPTS!!!!! WHY TAKE YOUR OWN LIFE BECAUSE SOMEONE YELLS AT YOU? THAT IS ONE OF THE STUPIDEST EXCUSES FOR A PROBLEM I HAVE EVER HEARD! START THINKING ABOUT YOUR FAMILY! WHAT WILL THEY THINK IF YOUR WEREN'T THERE????!?!?!?!?!

Answer 8

I went through a similar thing to you; it's important to realise that you are probably deeply depressed at present, but even so, you may still remember times when life was good. Well, it can be again, and soon: but you need treatment, which is readily available; all you have to do is reach out for it. See suicidal thoughts, and depression treatments, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris... in sections 2, (see page R first) and 5. Contact the suicide hotlines, or depression chatsites provided.

If the suicidal feelings become overwhelming, take a taxi, or call an ambulance, or use public transport, to take you to the nearest ER, or mental health facility, or call your local emergency number. 911 (USA), 000 (Australia), 999 (Great Britain), or 111 (New Zealand); see the phone book elsewhere.

Don't drive, yourself: you may well be a danger to others on the roads, in your current mental state. Too many people are found, and revived, but have suffered permanent mental damage, and live the rest of their lives in a semi vegetative state: their family, and friends feel guilty, and responsible, for not noticing the signs, and doing something about it.

It's a very nasty thing for them to have to go through, too, even though I appreciate that life is certainly no bed of roses for you, at present, so please, get help, right now: seek assistance, or use the hotlines provided.

It may induce those who cared about you to commit suicide, as well, or at least try, with undesirable consequences. Where suicide is involved, family, and friends often feel guilty, and responsible, for not noticing the signs, and doing something about it when there was still time.

See: http://www.cmha.ca/bins/content_page.asp... cid=3-101-103  Sometimes, if it induces suicide attempts from family members, or friends, it can result in either additional grief, for others, or horrible permanent consequences (see SUICIDE: ANECDOTAL, in section 5, at ezy build).

Consider this: people who have jumped off the Golden Gate Bridge and survived; unanimously say that during the fall they realized that all their problems were nothing compared to the problem they had just created by jumping. Try imagining, as vividly as possible, a time in the not too distant future, when you are happy.