I have very low self esteem...?

Question

people tell me i am beautiful but i never see it. Everyday i spend all my time lookin at myself tryin to fix my flaws, is it possible that i am seeing my flaws more than others because i am lookin to hard?? can any1 help me i hate myself to the point of commiting suicide

Answer 1

me too but when i get to the point where the knife is at my throat i think of everyone i will hurt by doing this then i remember where i will go if i do this and i put the knife down and go read my bible and read about how jesus made me the way he wants me to be and he loves me regardless of how sinful i am or ugly i am jesus don't see those things

Answer 2

Awww...there are so many people who feel exactly the same as you do. Those feelings can be normal, but once you reach the point of considering suicide, it's very serious.

If you don't like certain aspects of yourself, try and make little changes. Like if you have acne, get some medication and clear your skin up. It will make you feel a whole lot better about yourself.

It's going to sound kind of weird, but when I get my eyebrows waxed I feel sooo much prettier and confident. Pretty weird, huh?

Trust me. Making little improvements here and there can help you with your self-esteem problems!!

Best wishes!! xx

Answer 3

The toughest judge in the whole world is ourselves. We can look at ourselves in the mirror for years and see the worst IF WE CHOOSE!

Remember girl, if you don't love yourself, how can you expect others to love you. Start loving yourself. If people say your not beautiful, don't listen to them, and if people say your beautiful, don't listen to them either. People are going to tell you good things or bad things depending on the mood they are in. You could be the most beautiful woman in the world, and someone will say you're ugly just because they dislike you. If you take it in, you're only hurting yourself.