I haven't had a boyfriend yet?!?

Question

So, I am 15 and have never had an actual boyfriend . . . or my first kiss! And I don't know why, I am trying to become more confident and a little less shy, but it seems tht all of my friends have boyfriends or have had boyfriends and i don't know what to do. I pretend im not bothered by it, but i kinda am =( help!

Answer 1

don't sweat it, and don't let it bother you... i am 21 and i still haven't had a boyfriend!  I recently had my first make out session/kiss. Nothing for you to feel bad for at all!! I'm also pretty shy, so i guess that's why it took me this long, not to mention i'm very picky. Lots of guys have liked me but i never really gave them the time of day. I guarantee you that when you're truly ready for something to happen, the situation will present itself. Everyone develops at a different pace...your time will come. Hope this helped you feel a little better :)  

Answer 2

Enjoy your youth! Its quite cool to be single, you're free to meet and mingle with guys while your friends with boyfriends can't.  

Answer 3

15 is so young.  Don't worry.  I didn't have my first boyfriend or first 'real' kiss until I was 19.  When the time is right you will find the right person for you and you will kiss a lot of toads before you meet your prince charming.  I met my prince charming after kissing a lot of toads and we are married 14 wonderful years.  Don't listen to Cody.  What he said was mean and I reported him.  I bet that you are beautiful.  It has nothing to do with looks because ugly girls have boyfriends and sometimes pretty girls don't.  I was really shy when I was younger.  You just have to force yourself not to be shy.

Answer 4

your time will come

Answer 5

I'm in the same situation. What I'm hoping for is new guys at school. This means people who have never met you, so you can have the right first impression on them.

Answer 6

you can't do anything about it,..its okay for you to have not had a boyfriend yet, or even a first kiss.  ..don't worry about all your friends having boyfriends, it will most likely bring your confidence down, just try talking to your friends boyfriends ( but don't take it over board and make them think you like them and are trying to steal the guy from them ) ..your time will come..maybe your just one of those people who don't end up dating anyone untill the RIGHT person comes alog :) ..that would be SO MUCH better then going through a bunch of guys.    

Answer 7

im 17 and i also didnt have my first kiss, but i dont care im so picky and i want everything to be perfect

and also i still dont feel ready guys have to be patient lol

Answer 8

its ok be patient  

Answer 9

its ok be patient my frnd is 16  and until now hasnt have a bf..just be patient and all will be well

Answer 10

well be confident get some nice smelling perfume i geuss and be attractive

Answer 11

you'll get one :) just be patient

Answer 12

thats ok, you're just a late bloomer. You'll have more than enough of your fair share of relationship experiences before your lifetime is out

Answer 13

Oh you will find someone soon. you are only 15. Relationships are alot of work and the longer you are single the better. Before you know it you will be reeling in guys but just take it slow. You should just be yourself and a guy will do his little dance and try to court you but don't rush things.  

Answer 14

just like me! Just keep patient till you find a nice shy guy just like you who is the same way, then you'll be lonely together, but not for long, cuz you'll be together!

Answer 15

aww dont worry sweet, same here, but your time will come. & all the girls that have one now dont know what they are doin waisting there time on boys this young, but when your time comes, make sure he's the one and it will make it so much more special than having a boyfriend just so you fit in =]

Answer 16

be careful of Peer Presure!!! you are fine like that. wait abit.

Answer 17

there are a lot of girls and boys who have not been in relationships or had there first kiss. just be patient, i know it might be hard especially when all your friends are in relationships. but, believe me you'll have many boyfriends! trust me.

Answer 18

just take your time and wait.you are only 15 you have alot ahead of you.......trust me someone has there eye on you they just dont ant to tell you just as yet...

Answer 19

you really shouldn't be worried. i didn't have my first kiss or boyfriend until i was 18. you're still young, it'll happen eventually.