I haven't heard from my girlfriend in almost a week.what should i do?

Question

This is a little complicated. The last time I spoke with my girlfriend she told me her step dad had been in an accident and she would be travelling the following day to see him in hospital she had also complained she wasn't feeling well pretty much all week which worried me because she has a number of serious health issues. When i called the next day like we had arranged she didn't pick up. i've called her once everyday for the past 5 days and she hasn't gotten back to me. I don't know if she just doesn't feel like speaking and wants to be left alone or if she is too ill to talk or worse.The only option I have left would be to call her mother. I don't know how her mother would feel about me calling considering we have never met and shes no doubt stressed about her husband. I don't want to seem stalkerish or bother people in hard situations.I'm just really worried because its completely out of character.we speak everyday without fail. what worries me more is the fact she said she was feeling ill all week which could be something serious...what do you think guys think i should do?

Answer 1

Ring her mother and show some concern about her husband.

Then ask about your girlfriend.

But let it be REAL concern

Answer 2

definitely go to her house and check out the situation.  you wont seem like a stalker, you are just a concerned boyfriend which is always lovely to have.  In good time she will contact you but take matters into your own hands and go to her house asap

Answer 3

Try stalking a minor celebrity instead, that way you can at least check up on their movements in those magazines that keep the paparazzi in work.  

Answer 4

report it to police

she maybe locked up in cellar with her stepdad.

Answer 5

just call her!!

Answer 6

since her dad got in an accident and she said she hasnt been feeling well wait 2-4 days, then call/text/email her and just straight p ask her if she just wants a break or shes just not feeling good *good luck*

Answer 7

How long have you been going out with her?

Have you tried texting, if she doesn't want to speak.

If you've been going out for quite some time i would call her mother and see. It doesn't hurt to check, especially if you haven't heard anything for a week. She probably needs you at this point in time.

To be honest with you i would call her a couple more times (same day). If no reply with the text or the calls i would call her mum and find out whats going on.

Rather she's sick, or just spendnig a lot of time as result of the accident, or she needs a break from you.

Answer 8

She needs time with her family right now.  Give her that.  Its great that you are concerned about her health - but perhaps her health needs for her to have some time - and her family is there if she needs anything.  Stop calling her - she will contact you when she is ready.

Answer 9

Call her mother now ! Some things outweigh etiquette .

Answer 10

shes lying next to me, what you want me to ask her?