I haven't made out yet aka tongue?

Question

I had my chance though. In 3rd grade, in my country (Czech Republic) we played spin the bottle. But I got the bad girls. All they wanted is LIPS. I remember my friend actually got to make out. But when the moment comes, how am I going to know if she wants LIP or TONGUE? What if she wants lip and I want tongue. I don't wanna l**k her lips. Oh btw, I live in Southern California now.

Answer 1

well when ya kiss her, just kinda part your mouth a bit. she should get the hint. (well maybe not, if you're in 3rd grade. lol) but if not, see what she does. if she just stands there with her lips together she doesnt want tongue. but if she opens her mouth a bit too, she's most likely gonna be ok with tongue. course, if she's not, she'll probably tell you.

Answer 2

Make sure she's comfortable with you. I know I hate when guys I'm not really comfortable with grab me and stick their tongue down my throat. If she is, just wait for the right time, and if she's really into you, she won't care what you do, as long as she's with you.

Answer 3

your thinking of the doll chucky

Answer 4

this iz da way u know she wants tounge if playing ruff and hard if she acting precouis and wants u to control her she wants tounge.If she wants lips she will let u lead  

Answer 5

Practice with your friends.. thats what I did.

Answer 6

Ahoj ! (that's hi in czech, right? lol)

For the first time lips. Then tongue =]

Answer 7

i havent made out either...

first you start off lips then when you think its ok you do tongue i guess.

Answer 8

When I make out with a guy (I'm a Girl), I usually do lips. If he puts his tongue in then fair play, but until he does, I usually don't.

Unless i'm feeling fruity ;) Ha.

Answer 9

just use your tonge, if she dons't like it, she'll say.

Answer 10

When you kiss her, place your right hand (or left if you are left handed) on her cheek. Your hand cupping her cheek and fingertips touching just the edge of the back of her neck right below her ear. If she is standing you can also place your other hand on her hip.

Go in expecting to just get 2 regular kisses. Lean in for the first kiss make it soft and short. Back off about a centimeter wait one second and then go in for the second kiss leaving your hand placed on her cheek at all times. If you feel her lean in for the second kiss then its game on for a long one. If you feel her back off after the first kiss then wait for your next turn at the bottle. (Release her cheek as soon as the kiss is over back off and as soon as she opens her eyes, smile. A cool relaxed smile not a gross "give me more" smile.)

And hey... even if she backs off after the first kiss, if she is staring at you the rest of the night, when you get a moment where you can whipser to her... ask her if you can try it again.

BTW with kissing games, your tongue should only go in less than half an inch. Just enough to get past her lips. Anything more and you'll gross her out. (well ... unless she is IN to that).

Tip: secretly use chapstick on your lips before the game starts.