I haven't slept with my partner in 2 yrs. What can I do to increase libido?

Question

I fell pregnant after being with my partner for 6 mths. I had extreme morning sickness for 9 mths and then breastfed for another 9 mths, so understandably I avoided s*x. My libido was average prior to this. I love my partner but can't bring myself to sleep with him. The thought of it actually disgusts me.

Answer 1

you need to psyche yourself,love yourself,accept the way you are and then try to have s*x outside your usual bed,maybe in the sitting room,a hotel or lodgingn.Also check on the family planning method that you are using.if probably you are using her injection try pills.good luck.

Answer 2

You've got problems, then.   BIG problems !!!!!!

Answer 3

Obviously you are wanting to do something about it. Talk with your husband let him be aware with what is going on with you. Don't be alone in this. "Just do it and keep doing it" my friend told me that and actually I took the advise. We now do it almost daily and it does feel good overall. s*x is good for your and his health and should be part of your life like exercising. Do not make it a routine, experiment with it. Maybe get some toys men likes it when we do. We added exotic to our s*x life and it helps alot. Yes it is disgusting but in good way. I gained alot of weight and yes I had morning sickness forever and did not want to get pregnant how miserable I was during pregnant. Ha-ha. But ever since I took my friend's advise I start get activity with myself lost all the baby weights and have safe s*x.  

Answer 4

its okay the less u have s*x the less u want it and also u have a baby u must be so tired u need to speak to ur parthner and take it one step at a time also make sure u get time to ur self so u feel better!!also maybe try masturbation to get u in the mood

Answer 5

You need to sit down and honestly talk to him!  Don't say you don't desire him but openly talk about how you need to be romanced and given extra attention before you can get in the mood.  Believe me, I've been there, having a new baby is very tiring, throw in breastfeeding and its no wonder why you have no libido right now.    Is there anyone to watch your baby so that the two of you can go out for a romantic getaway?  Can you plan a nice candlelit dinner or find something that the both of you like doing together?  Things like that really do help rekindle the sexual chemistry.  You have to make an effort and so does he.  I wish you a lot of luck!  

Answer 6

Get some testosterone cream for women to appy to the area.

Answer 7

The first thing you need to do is figure out why your s*x drive is low and try to help get it back.  I was in your situation and it's not fun without being horny and feeling in the mood when needed.  I also felt like my orgasms (if I would even get one) were really weak.  Probably because of my s*x drive.

However, I tried exercising and dieting but nothing seemed to be working.  I thought I was screwed.  I then found something just as amazing as the vibrator.

My friend at work told me about this stuff she took to raise her s*x drive.  It was a natural herbal supplement and was I lucky to of found it.  Theres no side effects and the s*x drive is just tremendous along with orgasms that are blasting.  The stuff is called Hersolution pills.  At the time I saved money on them at herenhancement.com

What I did was tried out for 3 months and that was really it.  I found taking them every other day or so was the best to stretch it out. After the months were up, I was back to normal with a beating s*x drive and my o****m strength in increased so much.  

Well good luck and I hope this helps.