I havent had s*x in ages...how do i avoid a complete dissappointing disaster?

Question

I m in my early 20s and havent been in bed with a woman in almost 3 years. im not that ugly or unappealing, its just that i havent met anybody remotely appealing so it was more of a (odd) choice. i mean there are the cheap flousies, but i at least wanna connect with a girl, so that wasnt an option.

anyway: theres someone, and it looks like its going to happen...finally...

however - its been soooo long that i fear itll be sooo dissappointing for her that this whole thing will be over in 2 minutes...give it an extra minute for her to get dressed and walk out of the room and my life...

so girls - what should i do? thx

Answer 1

if she is worth breaking your celibacy with, why isnt she worth you letting her know the truth of your celibacy? There is no shame in that at all. I actually want to applaud you for having values and self respect. You are obviously are aware that being intimacy is more than the physical but a connection.

tell her the truth (if u havent already). trust me she will have respect and admire you for it. that way both of yall can be patient with each other when yall do decide to have s*x. and if for the first time you do climax in 2 minutes wait and do it again. Second rounds are usually the best! lol

good luck.  

Answer 2

the juice is worth the squeeze.....you don't wanna go with a loaded gun.