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I hv no friends in my life ,wt u are think?

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i,m alone ,becouse no one can understand to me ...

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  1. well, you have to start making friends- can you join a group with similar interests as you have? or start a job, and you will make friends there, or volunteer at someplace, that's a good way to make friends, too.  


  2. if a guy wants to be your friend, he wants to have s*x with you.

  3. dont worry be happy

  4. its true that true friends are like diamond in mine, but to find a good friend is not enough, its more important that how good you are to others. So dont take any tension you will surely find a good friend. Anyway Happy  Friendship Day.

  5. You have friends, but, if you are talking about grammatically understanding you, that IS a problem, but, it is one you can deal with by practicing your grammar on friends around you who are better with grammar.  Also, you can take a class, I am sure, at the local uni to help you improve, as well..

    Self-help is the best help there is, because nobody is as interested in your progress as you will be.

  6. DEar Mam,

    I do not know which Indian city you live in. My immediate suggestion is to seek out your local -Satha Sai Baba Center- and join the group.

    They are engaged in so many charitable and voluntary activities and you do not need to be wealthy to help. JUst yr time is good enough. Through out the world I have found them to be the happiest, cheerful  and elevating bunch of people.


  7. I looked up yr profile and find it difficult to figure out more abt u because of yr ltd command over English.

    people with good will can help u or give meaning full direction if they understand u better.

    Try to seek some help in framing yr Qs.

    One suggestion however-- Make it a point of joining the company of so many charitable and voluntary organisations. U will meet the best quality of mostly unselfish people whose friendship u  will really enjoy. GOD BLESS. Remember u r not alone .

  8. You still talking over there ?


  9. You have many friends, God is your friend for sure.

  10. The key to having friends is to go be a friend to someone else, instead of waiting for someone to come to you.  When my mother moved to a seniors' center, the manager asked when she wanted to have dinner so she could be placed at a table with someone else since my Mom didn't know anybody.  My Mom said don't worry - I'll just go to the dining room and find someone who looks like they need a friend and sit with them.  Needless to say, my Mom is well liked there and made many friends fast!

    There are TONS of lonely people out there!  Start by saying hi, chat with a neighbour, bring them some homemade cookies, arrange a neighbour get together, volunteer doing something you love or with the kind of people you'd like to meet, say hi to classmates or work colleagues and start by asking them to go for coffee, ask them questions about themselves, be interested in their lives.  Stay open to friends of different ages - there are tons of seniors out there who have lost many people in their life and would love a friend and to be a friend to you.  Volunteer at a seniors center, or residential seniors place where they are still quite independent and cognitively aware.  They have great wisdom and can be amazing friends.

    Another suggestion - go to http://www.meetup.com as there are groups all over in all interest areas.

  11. You have to make friends by changing yourself. If nobody understands you then try to understand them so that you can change yourself according to them, b'coz we have to change ourself according to the world since world will not change according to us - remember it.

  12. you have lots of friend you family

  13. A TRUE FRND UNDERSTANDS U WEN U R TRUE 2 THEM....

    but i've got a new frnd now and i wish her a HAPPY FRNDSHIP DAY...

  14. It is an old saying that to have a friend you gotta b a friend.  The saying is still around bec it's true.   It does take time and effort.  

    So to start with smile and say hi to a couple of ppl.  If you see someone drop their books or do something clumsy instead of laughing at them or turning away help them.   Look 4 ways to get nvolved in a group that helps pplor animals or something like that bec it is easier to get 2 kno ppl when u r doing something together.  Maybe visit a few churches or curch youth groupstoo.  Those can be good places to make friends. Some will b pretty closed up and into themselves but some are very open and friendly,

    If u really find this is still a problem and u can not relate 2 other ppl abd they can not relate 2 u consider checking out some counseling 2 learn what may be blockling things.

    A couple of things I learned that sound silly but they work.   When u are in a group sit close to the center of it not way in the back or off to 1 side.   Ppl in the middle are perceived by others more as being a part of the group and have more chances.   When u talk to someone ask a question that they can't answer with just yes or no....for ex not do you like math but who do you have for math?   What do you think about the way (s)he teaches?   Not did u catch the news last nght but I saw such and such on the news what do you think about that.  Not everyone wll cooperate but of you can learn the habits ppl will start to relate to u and u to them.   Another thing is find someone who seems as out of it as u feel and speak to them.    They are likely to respond.    

  15. WE ARE ALL YOUR FRIENDS ......NICE TO HAVE MET YOU ..... AND HAPPY FRIENDSHIP DAY BUDDY!!!!

  16. Will u be my friend?????????????????

    cool.scorpion11@yahoo.com

  17. You need to go out more and smile and have laughs with people you meet.  If you are in London then I can be your friend.  I am very nice guy honestly.

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