I invited my friend over to spend a night with me?

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Well I was alittle lonely last night so I invited him over to stay the night with me. I've never let him stay at my place but since my girlfriend is mad at me I needed someone to talk too and by having him here with me cheered me up. I asked him about him laying his head on my chest and he told me that he's starting to have feeling for me but at the same time he don't want to run me away. He also told me that if I should ever change my mind and want to be with him that he'll be waiting. After he said this I hugged him and told him that I love him and I also let him cuddle with me most of the night. I felt really close with him and it just felt so right inside. I met my girlfriend a year ago and she never liked my friend and i'm always getting into arguments with her over our friendship. So today i'm going to tell her either she accepts him or atlest be respect towards him or she can leave. Would I be wrong to tell her this? Also if I am bi how can I come to terms with it?

Answer 1

It is difficult at best to advise someone on what is right with out having all the details of the situation. however a few things here are clear.

You need to understand your own feelings for both and for your girl friend

you will have to consider that she feels insecure for whatever reason about herself and just does not want or need any competition for your time and affection.

Your friend on the other hand seems to understand that you may not be agreeable to his needs, and only you can decide how far you can go in embracing his desire or if you want to keep him at a distance, either way he is there for you.

You do have decisions to make here and my best advise to you right now is you must follow your heart and to do your best to consider the feelings of everyone and believe they both want you to be happy as you should wish the same for them. Good Luck

Answer 2

^^Crystal, its spelled *****, not bytch, and you should ask her that, and if she fails to accept that then dump her! And give your friend a chance, it sounds like he has genuine feelings for you and you have feeling for him!

Answer 3

Does your girlfriend know that you go both ways?  And if that is what you feel then tell her because I bet you anything that you respect her friends even if you don't like them, so why can't she respect your friend.  If the two of you were to get married and you wanted him in your wedding what is she going to do not marry you.  Tell her you have the right to choose your friends just like she does.

Answer 4

dump her.

she sounds like a b****.

Answer 5

David, I say ditch the silly bytch and give your friend a chance. You've known him longer how dare this hoe try to come inbetween that. I'm a female and i hate other females who are like this. This bytch has problems and it's best that you get out now while you're ahead.

just my 2cents ;)