I just broke up with my boyfriend and he is really mad at me. what do i do?

Question

well i just broke up with my boyfriend and he is really mad at me and is talking about me to my best friends behind my back. for some reason he thinks i like someone else and keeps asking my friends who i like. one of my friends is really good friends with my ex and she really wants to tell him who i like but i don't want her to. now i think she is mad at me but she says she is not. my ex has his status on AIM that i suck. is it just a faze? does it mean he really liked me? he even is telling me to my face to leave him alone that he is mad at me. i really want to be friends with him but i don't think he wants to still be friends with me. what should i do?

Answer 1

Sounds like this guy really liked you, leave him to cool now. Hes just angry and hurt right now, but if you give him a little space he should calm down.

But you did the right thing, at least you didn't lead him on.

Just give it time and everything will be a lot better. Try and ignore what he does and says for now.

Answer 2

Ignore him, really. You hurt him, and he just needs his time to get over you and move on.

He's being childish, though, and I don't think that the way he's coping with the situation at hand is appropriate.

But, honestly, I'd give it time. I know from my fair share of heart-breaking that guys don't always take things the way you want them to when you break up with them.

Answer 3

i think he likes you,

because if he didn't he wouldn't be asking your friends who you like.

and i think he's saying that you suck and that he's mad at you for attention so that you can be more on him, but it will pass trust me.

You have to make him listen and ask him why he's mad at you or ask him whats going on and  he probably wants to be friends with you but doesn't want to say it. Just take time it will come, just try to be as close and just go to the movies or chill with some friends and it will all pass over.