I just broke up with my first boyfriend and now I'm getting a lot of attention...?

Question

I recently came out of the closet and decided to have a relationship with a guy who was way out of my league in an area where he would have got a lot of interest but as i lived along way away from him the relationship couldn't of worked as I am sure he would have gotten a lot of temptation while I was away and I didn't want to put him in that position so we broke up even though we both still liked each other...now I'm getting a lot of interest from other guys that are what I thought were way out of my league and he is getting really mad with me!!! I don't see what has gone wrong..HELP!!!

Answer 1

Even when you are in a relationship, you are allowed to communicate with other people, of both sexes and persuasions. What the relationship is about is commitment, that you won't play the field with anyone else, and as you are doing nothing sexual, then that's fine, and anyways, even if you were, it has nothing to do with him, as you are single and free.

Also, you cannot help that other people are showing an interest in you, all you can do is keep declining any offers, should you wish to.

It's your life, and you decide who and how you want to spend it, not someone else.

Mike t.

Answer 2

it isn't your fault that you are getting a lot of attention. tell him the truth. if you really like each other then just tell him that you don't care about any of these people you only care about him. just keep on reassuring him. hope it all goes well.

Answer 3

You two have broke up: do you both agree on that?  If yes, he cannot be mad at you for receiving attention from other men.

Don't believe in leagues.  Most of my boyfriends have been way out of my league.  And my friends agree with me.  Leagues are not really true.  Many guys will be interested in you.

Best wishes.

Nick

:)

Answer 4

Well you pretty much answered your question yourself :S

But... I think it's good

I guess

Answer 5

if you two broke up, shouldn't you BOTH try and move on... you might have it easier than him, because they're some guys who are interested in you and he's getting jealous and angry because he lost you.. it's normal for him to feel that way.. and even though you like each other if it can't work out between you two there's no need to hang out to those feelings cuz you both will get hurt more.. so i'd say just be honest with him, guys are interested in you, that's something good for you, and surely others will be interested in him too.. you've got to move on and be happy for each other.. it's gonna come the day that you're gonna like another guy and you will move on with your life and he surely will do the same...  

Answer 6

Ummm so first things first...why do u care of what ur ex thinks???? Umm well your gonna wanna go out with someone else and so is he and u no that...if you 2didnt break up he probably wouldve 2 timed you :/

Second really get to know the new people that are out of your league :) you never no who they really are (done judge a book by its cover)

So you may still have feelings for your ex :/ your gonna have to get over him :)

Third listen to me if I make sense because I don't want someone to get hurt over something you've mightve misunderstood ;) okay hope I helped :D

Answer 7

He probably doesn't feel the same way about why you broke up.

He probably still loves you and hes just thinking you broke up with him to go out with someone else or for the freedom to date who you want. I'm sure hes just not meeting eye to eye with the situation.

Talk to him.