I just broke up with my girlfriend of 3 months, she hasnt been here in 5 weeks, always an excuse, right thing?

Question

i have seen her drove 2 hrs 12 times, she has only been here 1 time, she makes much more money than me, so she can afford the gas, did i do the right thing?

Answer 1

By not being available when you are making an effort to spend time with you I think she was subconscious or maybe consciously saying she was no longer interested.  so it was completely the right thing.  But I do know that sucks, so sorry man.

Answer 2

It's not the money......it's the thought that counts, so yes you did the right thing.

Answer 3

Question is: could you afford the gas too or you just wanted her to pay for the expenses? But it seems like both of you didn't care much about this relationship so why bother?

Answer 4

how do you feel about it? but it does take 2 to make it work

Answer 5

Yes, you did the right thing.  If she's not even willing to see you, she doesn't care about you like a real girlfriend should.

Answer 6

yes...move on  

Answer 7

Agreed, i think you should just move on. Better luck next time!

Answer 8

You're wasting your time, as well as precious gas money. Why keep the wound open? This whole "let's stay friends" gig is a dying concept. She wants to move on, and you should too.

Answer 9

if it isn't ment to be, it isn't ment to be. the grass is always greener on the other side, there's always more fish in the sea.

relationships often fall out for different reasons, and if you don't see each other for a long time and you wanted to break up, it means you'd be happier with somebody else you can't get enough of.

good luck!