I just caught my 12 year old son having s*x with his girlfriend. What should i do?

Question

I just caught my 12 year old son having s*x with his girlfriend. What should i do?

Answer 1

I'm a little suspicious of this question, but I will answer it on the off chance it is a real question.  The first thing you need to do, is call that girl's parents and get them to your house ASAP.  All of you need to discuss how inappropriate their actions are, and make sure you talk both of those kids to be tested for STDs and get that girl the morning after pill.  The next thing you need to do is put that boy under lock and key.  He needs to be monitored at all times for quite a while since he obviously can't be trusted, and he should NEVER have a girl in his room (he shouldn't have had her in their in the first place.)

Answer 2

Just ignore them.  It is their business

Answer 3

whatever you do DO NOT forbid him from seeing her he will hate you. AND you can't really stop them from doing that so just make sure he has what he needs.

Answer 4

that is not a good thing. give ur son a curfe and call the girls parents,sit down and explain to them the dangers.go easy on that day and tell them the punishment starts the next day.try picking ur son up from school and if u work late put him in a program like daycare or soemthign of the sort.for there punishment first the curfew and also ground them from any games for abourt a week but still let them watch t.v. for atleast an hour because it is essianntial for kids to have a small bit of entertainment or they will become to stressed and get olsars which are really bad at that age

Answer 5

keep em awway

does not sound true though?? :?

Answer 6

I am 13 years old and I know a few boys who would totally try to get as far as they can with a girl. Usually, whether parents know it or not, girls our age don't easily say No. I have done things that my parents would be soooo mad about, but nothing like that. I would call the parents, talk/punish the kids, ask them why they did it, and keep the boy AND girl under watch. Girls are not always the victim, sometimes we start it. Make sure they are checked for STDs, and if I were you, I wouldn't try to force the couple apart, it could cause some serious regrets and emotional probs if they don't work it out themselves. if there old enough to have s*x, they should be old enough to deal with their own issues.

Answer 7

nothing its there life leave him alone and he will be fine. who know he might not have had his wet  dream yet.

Answer 8

Talk to your son first, then advise him that you are going to talk to the girls parents and see if they knew what was going on. Whoever on here said leave them alone it's there business. Since when are your children none of your business? If they are doing adult things they shouldn't be doing the parents need to step in. I do realize  they need their privacy every now and then to talk on the phone, read, write in their diaries, or if they just want some alone time. But having s*x is out of the question especially at that age. Parents need to educate there children about s*x at an early age, abstinence is the way to go. No babies, no stds! They should wait until they are married.

Answer 9

Oh my!!!

Wow at 12 years old I was just starting to learn a little

about s*x actually was!

Im almost 15 now and wow I couldnt imagine saying

that I already lost my virginity at 12 years old.

Does your son know the consquenses that might come out of having s*x?

Wow I would most deffinatley call up her parents and inform them on the situtation!

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Answer 10

tell him about STD'S!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

Answer 11

Chill.

age aint nothing but a number. Love cant be based on a number and someone on this earth needs to realize that.

Answer 12

try talking to him about it.

Answer 13

Hope and pray she doesn't wind up pregnant or you will be paying child support since obviously your 12 year old son isn't even old enough to hold down a job...what the h**l business does a 12 year old child have dating to begin with?