I just don't know what to do anymore. ?

Question

so for those of you who have commented on my questions probably know about me will school started again and I still like this guy the one I've liked for seven years and will I have this feeling he's going to ask my friend out which doesn't bother me too much cause she's like a sister to me but i don't know i wish i knew if i should stay or go back to school and no it's not because of that boy but because I 'm 18 in the 11th grade I've thought of getting my ged but thats not what I want I'm haven't been sure for the past 3 years I'm a person that can't make my own decisions I want people to lead the way but I'm not a little girl anymore and I need to have a mind of my own and start being a little more responsible but I can't there's got to be something I can do I just can't figure out what but even if i did I don't know how to drive ride the bus don't know the street names I was kept home a lot and now I;m scared to leave my house and go to school I'm scared of practically everything all i do is stay home and let life pass me by I don't think i'Il ever be independent.

Answer 1

Well, u are just 18 years. The most beautiful time of your life...This is the age that you just have loads of fun...Forget about future..stay focus on just two things....ur studies and ur friends.....Take life easy...Have fun with your friends....be happy....keep smiling...and see each day as a new beginning of your life...take each day as a new adventure...Just continue ur studies...do your best... and during other times.....HAVE FUN..Concentrate on your looks and dress pretty..Have confidence that you are also an individual just like anybody ,who has every right to do what she likes...If you do it this way...believe me all that u want will follow you...A guy who is interested in your friend is not worthy of you...He is just a big bag of joke....And guys at this age just wants to have fun....What u have to ask yourself is what u want?? Do you want a long term relation with him or do u just want a time pass relation with him?? If its the long term that u want...then u just need to have patience....Guys are interested in girls who are morally stronger than them.. Work on ur morals, ur principles..U dont have to be always outside the house.or always inside the house...

        Remember, never sacrifice ur studies for anybody/anything...Never stop studying...Ur ultimate goal in life should be to be independent and support ur family...make ur family proud of u......The rest will follow...money, fame,success,better guys(whom u can trust)....Always select the best when it comes to guys.

            Take ur time to set ur goals.

Answer 2

Just let the guy do what he's going to do. If what you want to do is finish high school, then what's the problem? You have to start learning to do things yourself. As for street problem/not knowing how to get to places. It's quite simple. I'm legally blind, which means I won't be able to drive legally unless some miracle. But I still learned street names and what I was at at all times in the city I go to most. And around my neighborhood. Take a walk around your neighborhood, figure out the street names from there. There are signs. When you are driving with someone, ask them questions. There's always a pattern to street numbers. What do you do at your house? Do you have any chores? Take responsibility for something. Maybe you can make a routine out of walking everyday memorizing street names and....doing something productive at the same time. Do you not have friends? Ask them for help or do something with them. Get out of the house! That's the main part. Get a job, though, it isn't the best thing to do when in school. Just start doing something to help somebody.