I just found out im pregnant with my ex what now?

Question

Well I just found out I'm pregnant and I'm 15!

It's my ex's and we did it after we broke up, but now I just found out I'm pregenant. So my friends told me not to tell him but I had to I thought it was the responsible thing to do. So the only way I could get ahold of him was at school, so I asked to talk to him and I told him in a deserted hallway during lunch, and I guess someone ove heard us! but when I told him he freaked out but still took it well to me under the circumsatnces, but now every other word out of his mouth is "we cant take care of it" "abort it" or "your only choice is to get rid of it" or also "I cant be there to help". and I dont know what to do!! He says he told his mom, but I just dont know what to do. every time he asks if I told my parents I say no I just dont know what to say yet. and he keeps on having his mom try to call me and he wont talk to me! only his mom will. I just want to sit down and have a conversation with him on all our options but he wont!

Answer 1

You should have been more carefull. This happens so often, didn't it warn you? You need to tell your Mum first. Its your choice on whether you keep it. It will ruin your future and your education. A baby is a huge responsibility and if your not ready for that (15 is a very young age) then maybe you should abort or put it up for adoption. Its your choice. Good Luck

Answer 2

Go type in "15 and pregnant! What to do!?" in the search box. I'm confident you'll find PLENTY of answers. ;)

Answer 3

OK, if this is not a fake (and I'm guessing it's not) then you have somethings you need to d, and hen options. Tell your mom s she will find out one way or another. no comes the options. you could get an abortion. you could go through w/ the pregnancy and raise the child (which i do not suggest). finally, you could go through w/ the pregnancy and put the baby up for adoption. if you choose to go through w/ the pregnancy then you need to see an ob ASAP. then, if you choose adoption you should start looking for parents soon. if you decide to have the baby then you need to figure-out what yo will do about school, how you will come p w/ money to raise a child, what you will do for daycare, start looking for a job, and tell the boy that legally he can be held responsible for child support (which is true). hope this helps!

Answer 4

you should of been on the pill or used a comdomi am very sorry for what your ex is saying but you need to ask your self the question do you want to keep it

i think that you should go to the doctors tell them excalty what you just told al of us and ask the doctor for help telling your parents it will be much easier for you make sure you try and go to the doctor asap to tell you parents they will be angry at first but they will have to deal with it and they will be there for you good luck telling youre parent and make sure you dont listen to what youre exs says its you choice x

Answer 5

Well I understand why your ex is acting this way. It's just that he's young and he's scared and he doesn't know what to do. It sounds like he's still a kid himself. Well the decision is totally up to you. & You can have his mom tell your parents if it's too hard for you to tell them yourself. But I think it's best that you just tell them straight up. Just BE BRAVE & sit down with your parents and just say "I'm pregnant." & Then see how it goes from there. That's what I did when I was pregnant at the age of 14. It was REALLY hard to tell my parents.  I recommend that you don't abort it though. If you guys were old enough to have s*x, then you guys are old enough to take care of the outcome of the situation. I don't think you should take away an innocent life. I think abortions should be illegal. I'm sure his parents and your parents will help to support you. Best of luck in whatever you do.

Answer 6

I wish people would ask REAL quetions here. Arghh it pisses me off. You're lying.

But if you really want a fake answer to a fake question either do the responsible thing and raise it, you made it you raise it, or be selfish and go get an abortion. Either way close your legs, there's enough teenage s***s.

Answer 7

you dont need him or his mother to help you make the decision, it wont make it any easier, its up to you, and whatever you decide to do they will both just have to support your choice!

good luck

Answer 8

Ok well that kinda sucks for you..

You really need to tell your parents. That's going to be probably the hardest part, but also you need to get that out of the way so your not as stressed.

& welcome to parenting! Because you ruined your life!

Answer 9

summer school? well, good job! i'm sure your parents will be proud of ya.now, didn't you have some sort of escape plan before you had s*x in case of this???

Answer 10

talk to his mom. If you decide to keep it ask his mom if he can at least spend time with the kid. Don't start begging for money. Let him help pick the name and give it his last name. What i am basically saying is do anything to have this guy in this babies life if you decide to keep it.