I just found out my friend is g*y, but he doesn't know I found out, what should I do?

Question

Recently I went over to my friends house (we are both 13 year old males). We wanted to watch a funny movie we had found on youtube on his laptop yesterday, so instead of wasting my time searching for it, I decided to go under his history list to find it. He had gone into the bathroom by now and would come back in a matter of minutes. As my eyes scrolled down the list of websites visited (I wasn't reading the names because I was trying not to be a snoop) to youtube. One such website caught my eye. It was a porno website (Which I will not name, mind you), and out of my incredibly bad curiosity I decided to see what pages were visited on the site. They were homosexual porno's (Which I again, will not name). I decided to butt out because it wasn't my business, but once I got to the list of youtube pages visited I saw searches of things along the lines of "hot men stripping".

Should I talk to him about it, or just wait for him to come out himself?

Answer 1

Why are you concerned? Who cares about sexuality nowadays?

Answer 2

no.

Leacve it unless he tells you

Answer 3

That proves nothing. Let say he did visit those sites ( so far no proof but), he's only 13 he may very well be curious about what changes are coming. Considering that these changes are permanent and form his adult self body. Give him credit for realizing that the game is a foot, these changes are happening now. At 13, that's pretty scary if you don't think so take a look for all the little girls on here asking if they are cute. They're terrified about what their adult bodies will look like. Your guy may just want to know if he is on track to "measure up" with the big boys.I don't think you have seen enough of the picture do be sure what it is.

Answer 4

confront him before he tries to rape you!!!! lol

he is going to t-bag you when you sleep, get out of there now!!!

Answer 5

Maybe he's not g*y? Maybe someone put it on his computer as a joke. You would have to be a r****d not to clear the history after looking at that. and maybe it's someone else in his family like his mom or something. And lastly who cares he is your friend?

Answer 6

well thats not true evidence he is g*y, granted he might be, or bi even. if u feel comfotable u can ask him but i think he'll tell u when he's ready, so when he is (assuming your right) then just be there and be understnading.

Answer 7

Wait for him to tell you.  When the time is right, he'll tell you.

Answer 8

13 and watching p**n?  What have this world come to...  Anyways, best advice is to keep it in.  Don't change the way you act around him or anything to make him feel uncomfortable.  Let's say he is g*y.  So what?  As a friend, being there for him when he opens up really helps.  He might be going through a rough time right now, confused and in his own world, and he doesn't need anyone staggering in and ask him something that he doesn't feel like talking about to people yet.  When he's ready, he will eventually let loose and tell his family and friends.  But yea, don't assume things if you don't have enough substantial evidence.