I just found out through a paternity test that the man thought to be my husbands' father is not. ?

Question

How do I tell him??????!!!!! Should I even? My mother-in-law doesn't even know yet!

Answer 1

I think that you should tell them and if he's a good father he will continue his relationship with your husband.Good Luck

Answer 2

omg . I think you should tell him, but give it some time .  

Answer 3

Where do you live?  In the US (I don't know about other countries) there's no need for a paternity test if Dad has a will.  Is there a reason he can't write one?  If he can write one, have him do it and don't mention this to anybody, because it would serve no purpose whatsoever.

Answer 4

OH DEAR,

That is terrible. How sad that is going to be to hear. Yes, you must tell them but to keep things in prospective, go and talk to your mother-in-law first and let her know what you've discovered. This will also be upsetting to her as well, You know she loves her son and regardless of that information she needs to be the first to know so she can with her heart, tell your husband in private just her and him. Something like this will need to be shared by the 2 of them together. Bless his heart and his mother's that would be so sad and I hope that you have that in mind in revealing your information - "secrets are painful" let them know gracefully. I beg you.

Answer 5

well if your child is old...like 10-20 or something then yes u are going to have a hard time...this is wat u do....u just have a nice talk with him...and tell him the truth...the truth will set u free....if he decides to leave u then win him bak... or u can go on the maury show...or live with the guilt