I just got my period and im having trouble telling some one.?

Question

i usually tell my sister everything. but for some reason i cant build up the courage to tell her about this. its weird. and im not sure about telling my mom yet. i know "she's your mom, just tell her!" but you all know that it's awkward still. any help?

Answer 1

write it on a piece of paper and leave it somewhere for her to find :]

that way you wont face the awkwardness of being like "mommy i have my period"

although that sounded like a 5 year old. lol

but yeah. or just come out and say it

she's gotta know some day :]

Answer 2

well when i got my period i cried and called my mom.. but if u dont feel comfortable write them a note telling  them that u got ur period but arent yet comfortable talking to them about it. you will ease into talkin about ur period b/c all women have it and we usually talk and joke about it.. so congrats on the curse lol!

Answer 3

Sweetie it's normal to feel that way, but it's nothing to feel weird about EVERY woman goes through it....including your mom and your sister. They will understand and hopefully sit you down and talk to you, because your body is starting to change and there is gonna be a lot that you do not know.......so tell them.

Answer 4

Trust me when I say your mum is probably expecting it to come any time around now - I doubt she will be overly suprised.

As your used to telling your sister everything you could start by telling her and asking her to help you tell your mum

Answer 5

i couldent tell my mam i was so young,but you dont have to, just go on websites and find out all you need to know ,usually u start ur peroid round the time ur mam did so bye know shell be asking(but she mite not be)wen the time comes wen she says darling have u started ur...,u can say yep and im fine about it. so i dont need to talk.

Good Luck

Answer 6

Well when I got my period(about a year ago)I was at a hotel with my family watching tv. My mom was sitting right next to me and I had just used the bathroom and found out. So I go sit down next to her and write her a note saying 'I think I got my ." So if you are nervous just write a letter. Hope I helped!

Answer 7

ahh! i had to tell my dad ! luckky , but i called my sister first. just walk up to your sister and be like i need to talk to you .. alone. and once your alone with her be like umm i just got you knoww. and shell be like what ? and  say me you knoww and spell it out or say it , and then it will be WAYY easier to tell your mom , becuase you sister can tell her or she can be next to you why you say it . ahha i just got mine too . good luck babbehh (:

Answer 8

why do you feel the need to tell anyone??

But if you have to just say you have bad pain in your abdomin and how to make it go away. that would hint them.

Answer 9

Hunny you are now a woman!!!! and let me tell you I dont know how your mom or your sister are but they will most likely be happy for you and cause a sean...I knwo that sounds weird but when I told my mom she was excited and a little embarassing too...she called all her friends to tell them...how weird is that...but we actually celebrated me becoming a woman...we went out to dinner and got mani/pedis it was a nice day... like i said im not sure how your mom or your sister are but it is a very natural thing and you shouldnt feel awkwward about it...now if it came to you havin to tell your bro or your dad ya now that can be awkward but good luck and congrats!!! ya i bet your saying y is this psyco saying congrats...im gonna get cramps bleed for days and this just sux....but...YOUR A WOMAN NOW!!!! dont be ashamed of it...take care

Answer 10

Maybe you could write a letter explaining you got your period, but you're nervous about telling someone, and so you thought this is how you could bring yourself to do it! I hid it, too, because I was embarrassed, but my mom figured it out! I even denied it at first, but she just came over, and gave me a hug, and told me it was OK. God, that was 29 years ago, I feel so old! lol!

Answer 11

dont tell anyone that you got ur period but the day will come when ur mom asks you about it cause she's gonna think that u have a health problem since ur not gettin ur period so when she asks u can tell her that u got it a long time ago and you'll be older at that time!!

Answer 12

your period....wow...i would say congrats but kinda not what ur looking for. i remember when i first got mine...the first thing i did was run to my mom. i take it your sister is old, thats good...she will be able to give u simple how tos and what not to wear advice. ur mom will probally want to sit you down and talk to you about when she got hers and the birds and bees. its ok...let her...thats what she is there for...to give to much advice..to care to much...to go in a buy "supplies" till u feel comfy. go to her...really...she will most def make you fee more comfy with whats going on. like i said before...talk to ur sis to...

Answer 13

I'd tell your parent that you don't feel comfortable talking about it and not to mention it again.  Also, you could get the needed supplies yourself.

Answer 14

Gosh, you know, I can still remember the very day I started my period - I was in my room, on my bed, watching television, my stomach really started hurting, I ran to the bathroom and found blood. I just said, mom, I'm not feeling well, I started bleeding. And she got me a pad and explained things to me. And life went on as usual, no big deal!

Answer 15

aw, it's okay.

your period really, truly, isn't a big deal.

she IS your mom.

if you don't want or think you need her help,

just say "Mom, I got my period!" out of the blue, and whatever she says back you can just ignore and be a teenager.

and to tell your sister, or your mom also i guess, you can just walk into your sister's room and sit down and say "Um, can I borrow some of your tampons?" and that will be that.

good luck (: <3

hope i helped.

Answer 16

go to your mum and ask for a pad, and is she asks why just keep asking for one. And shell soon get the message, thats one way of telling her without actually giving detail :D

Answer 17

Say "mom, aunt flo just came to visit". she'll understand.

Answer 18

See, i think your lucky in the fact that your mom is around while you're going through this huge new thing. I unfortunately started mine while staying with my father for the summer. Just ask if she can take you to the store and when you get there ask for her advice on the products. Good luck to you!

Answer 19

i know how embarassing that is! i told my aunt and had my aunt tell my mom. but coming from a new mom, i would be heartbroken if my baby were afraid to come to me with anything. so just tell her, she will probably be happy :)