I just had a break up and he left me, i m so shattered and i want to take revenge, what should i do?

Question

i was in a relationship for a year and half, he seems to be so loving, then suddenly he ended this all without any reason, now i feel very cheated all the time and i really want to teach that b*****d a lesson, what should i do, i m helpless.

Answer 1

just look hot and maybe get with one of his friends

Answer 2

You shouldn't get revenge, you should just move on and forget about it.

Think about something else than taking revenge.

Answer 3

Get over him and start dating again.

Answer 4

don't take revenge, it will make things worse, and if you fail and everyone knows about it, no one will want to date you, you will look goofy....just get over it and find someone else

Answer 5

Revenge is not the answer. You loved him, he loved you. Calling him a b*****d and really wanting to teach him a lesson is only going to damage your relationship more.

Several options:

1. Stay friends.

2. Make him jealous! Start dating other guys. ;)

3. Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery, but today is a gift. That's why it's called the present. Stop moping about what was, and start focusing on what is. You're not together. The best you can do is move on.

4. Ignore him. He might miss you and crave for your attention.

Answer 6

You're going to make yourself look bad if you decide to seek revenge against him by teaching him a "lesson." Don't stoop to that level because you are better than that! Yes, it does hurt when a good relationship ends, but its best to make the best out of a situation by moving on with your life! Besides, he is not the only man in this world! Think about it. Good luck to you and remember, love yourself first!

Answer 7

What comes around goes around his time will come. But in the mean time get over it.

Answer 8

Make your own life better and forget him.  Nothing you do to him directly will affect him better than if he sees you've gotten over him and moved on...and can live just fine without him.  I'm not saying this is easy, but it can be done.  Keep yourself really busy with other friends and hobbies.  

You would only get minimal and short term satisfaction if you "taught him a lesson."  You'd get a lifetime of satisfaction if you do something to better yourself!!!  Good luck...and love yourself!

Answer 9

Use this experience to become stronger but don't try to get revenge it will not prove anything it'll only make him feel good because your spending your time worrying over him breaking up with you. The best you can do is move on and feel good about yourself, h**l be angry enough when he realizes that you are still strong and that he isn't irreplaceable.

              

            Best wishes

Answer 10

You gotta deal with it. That's life. Don't try to take revenge. It'll only make your relationship worse. Plus, that's part of dating. You have to move on.  

Answer 11

Get over it.

Answer 12

You have to get over it.This may happen more than once in your life.You can't get even with the world.Men and women collectively don't always end things properly or to our liking so you just have to be the better person as revenge tastes sweet at the time of doing it but it always and i mean always comes back to bite you in the ***.

Answer 13

you are no one to do a revenge. you're just not authorized to do revenges. besides if you love him you'll just want him to be happy. and if he's happy without you then you should let him go. i know it hurts and in the "getting over someone" treatment anger is the second step to complete releasing from some thoughts. so just take a deep breath. he will regret losing you and trust me, if he was with you for a year and a half he will for sure be hurt if you show him you don't care ;) experience. :)