I just need some encouragement

Question

So almost every married couple (and so that are not) is pregnant. And it's kinda making me feel left out. My hubby and I aren't quite ready to have kids yet (I'm in college), but I still find myself wanting to be pregnant. So every time I hear "guess what!..." I just want to go cry. So some encouragement would be nice. Or women who have the same feelings.

Answer 1

Honey you're smart. If you and your husband feel like you guys aren't ready for a baby. Then don't. Please don't feel bad because others are having kids. Just wait. If you wait until you're comfortable and ready then you and your family will more than likely be happy. If you have them when you feel like you're not ready then that just spells disaster for everyone.

Answer 2

i am right there with you, my 3 best freinds (and really my only friends anymore now that i am older!) are all prego! i was prego to with them, and lost mine in may(this made my fourth loss) so it is so hard to be happy for them! one is due this week, one in nov, and one in dec, and i was due in jan, so i thought it was going to be perfect! i to am in college and busy with that, but it just seems like its not fair! but hold in there it will happen for the both of us!! good luck with school and new baby in the furture!

Answer 3

well im 14 and pregnant so i cant really answer that

n i am pretty happy even though it was a plain mistake :P

but ur brave waiting,its not nice when ur all fat and weird

maybe older

but defo NOT 14

xoxo

Answer 4

I totally undestand how you feel *REALLY* Been there.If you want a baby so bad it hurts I say GO FOR IT!!! :) WHo cares if your in college.OK I feel like Im giving bad advice!! BUT I always go after whats in my  heart!!!  Everything happens for a reason and if its meant for you to get pregnant GIRL i will happen,you just need to make it happen!! A LITTLE BABY MAKING ADVICE!!!! BELOW!!! :)

Remember you ovulate 14-16 days before you start your period. The time to have s*x to get pregnant is when you are very wet,slippery,and stretchy down there,alot of women's right or left side will hurt when the egg is released. You need to have s*x atleast two or three times the week of ovulation to get preganant.VERY IMPORTANT! Stay laying down 30-45 minutes after s*x DO NOT GET UP AT ALL.WAIT TO PEE!!! It takes 30-45 minutes for the sperm to reach the egg to fertize it.Hope this helps!!:) Good luck

It took me three years of trying and I got this advice from a friend and I got pregnant in two months after I took her advice:)

Answer 5

I know exactly how you feel. I just finished college in May. All of my friends got pregnant while I was going to school. It made me feel left out. But now that I am done with school I am very proud of myself. I feel glad that I waited and was able to fix college. My friends that got pregnant while we were all going to school had to drop out and I was able to finish. Just hang in there especially if you and your husband are not quite ready. It will get better. But when you and your husband are ready I wish you the best of luck.

Answer 6

My husband and I have been trying for over 2 years to get pregnant. We just lost our second one together (my 3rd) and it is very difficult to see pregnant women, hearing they just found out they were pregnant, or are about to deliver. I have a dear friend who is going to have a baby by c-section tomorrow. I am very happy for her but at the same time it hurts. It's not easy. It does tend to make you feel left out, and that hurts. I'm the only one in my family who doesn't have them and it breaks my heart any time I am around most of my family or when I hear about women who just find out they're pregnant without even trying.

You said that you and your husband are not quite ready to have a baby. You're still in school so it's a smart choice. It doesn't mend a broken heart by seeing and hearing about pregnant women, but when it's the right time, you will one day have yours. Only the two of you will know when the time is right. If it's meant to happen before you are ready, then it's gonna happen. Until then you two can enjoy each other, spend time together and prepare yourselves for the blessed event before it happens.

This may not help you feel better but honestly I'm not quite sure that anyone knows the right words to say. Some how you will find your own way to get through the feelings you are feeling now.

Oh, and ignore that little 14 year old. Apparently that is her way of rubbing things in. It was a pretty s****y thing to do.

Good luck in school and enjoy your time with your husband.

Answer 7

Thats just what women do. Seeing and hearing makes your clock tick and want that baby! But getting done with school is a great thing to get done. Let me tell you from experience I wish I got done with school before having a baby. Throwing a baby into it makes it all so harder! Im still not done. Dont worry, once your done you will have that time and the school behind you. :) Cheer up!  

Answer 8

just think when they need help because their exhausted from sleepless nights or need a day off you will be like a hero to them! trust me they will be happy. and i really wish i got my job and traveling done before i became a mother. enjoy thime with your partner as you get verry little with a young one around!!!