I just need someone to listen, please,?

Question

lately i have been feeling very frustrated, angry, and unloved

i have been having SO many problems happen way beyond my maturity.

so if i mess up, even a little, i might as well go lock myself in my bedroom for days, and let the problems work themselves out, because i will make it worse. (i have done this)

i find myself just screaming at my parent when they are mad at me, (im usually one to listen and comprehend what they are telling me) they tell me i am just venting myself, but i shouldnt be venting this much.

i have not been truly happy with my life in about a year.

i just want to go back to how everything once was.

IM SO STRESSED! just to let you know.

with friends, sports, parents, siblings, puberty.

i cant handle all of it, at least not now.

check my profile for some of my issues i have, with parents and friends... ect.

what would you do?

(i cant go to my mom, not my older sis either)

(i have no one)

Answer 1

many of these issues are natural and just depend on how you perceive them. look at it this way, in 5 yrs, will this problem mean anything? will it really change my life?

Answer 2

i'm going through puberty too, our hormones are, shall i say "acting weird" when you think the problems through, you find the solution. You can ask a counselor, friends, friends parents, teachers, etc. just make sure you talk to a friend that ISN'T part of the problem.

Answer 3

being a teen is verry hard i find it easy to get stressed over nothing but you can talk to councalers confedentualy about your problems its their job to lison to you a problem shared is a broblem halfed

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Answer 4

Drama is it? From your friends? I couldn't handle it once either. I was so frustrated that I didn't make any new friends and didn't put any like...effort into it.  I was upset all my friends were not liking me. Then my parents were always mad at me and I always did something wrong (or at least i thought).

Sports are getting harder are they? Well. Practice. While you are steaming off and sorting out problems, practice sports. It may help you with your sports!

Parents are annoying. Maybe you are just sick of them so you are firing back at them. It's understandable. You cant handle their ways, their remarks and how they get angry.

I read your other question about your sister. She is severely bipolar, and has ADD? Well. That's terrible. Help her out. Tell your parent to give her a break if thats the problem.

Puberty sucks, hormones and c**p and changing. Your friends are changing, you are, and your parents are changing their outlook on you.  Just handle it smoothly and talk to your mom.

Answer 5

wow. i feel sry for u. but don't worry life is ruff sometimes. i know i've been thru depression and felt that noone cared about me.   but just set goals for urself like (rearrange ur room, clean it up a little, throw away things u don't want, write a lot of stuff in ur journal and talk about all ur problems, etc.) Maybe try to go somewhere with ur friends like to the mall or shopping somewhere or go to a fun place and hang out.

Exercising is good too. Take a walk or go jogging. it gets alot of stress out. Maybe even in ur room like do some exercises.  Good luck :)  I hope i helped some.

Answer 6

Kind of sound like me when I was depressed...except honsetly I sounded more lost and worse. You might be getting to that point where you can't take it anymore. I wanted to run away so badly but I had no where to go. It lasted about a year and I am hoping it will never happen again. The feeling is horrible and I felt very alone, you need to talk to someone before it does get bad. I never talked to anyone and I really wished I did. Maybe you should talk to the source of your problem, mine was my mom. She is being extra nice to me since we moved again which i find very weird but it is nice. We still have problems though.

Answer 7

Girl, trust me there are people that are having it worse

but hey you can always educate your self and learn that will distract you from your problems(that's what i do)

learn about anything:

history, religion, science, music, psychology, s*x

(I'm assuming you are a mature as you say and people who are aren't afraid of the "s" word and learn about it so no mistakes can be made in the future)

But most importantly He/She who knows about all these things will be successful in life

and this will help you to solve them when the time comes

remember you follow one path the path chosen by God

if you have faith and follow the tip i just gave you

all your troubles will go away

hope this helped

Answer 8

It sounds like your depressed call your doctor.

Answer 9

first take a deep breath. you have a lot on your mind and you need to calm down. Shut your eyes and imagine your on a beach (or someplace you find relaxing) feel the waves splash against your toes, the sun beat against your face, and sand slip through your fingers. Listen to sea gulls, waves crashing. Smell the salty air. It wont fix your problems, but its a start. Patting a cat, or some other animal is soothing. If you dont have any pets try a stuffed animal. I think you should try going to a guidance counsoler. It may sound dumb but ive done it and it really helps. Do you have a friend who you arent fighting with. You dont have to talk to them about this, maybe just go downtown and have some fun. You could also try making a list of everything you want to change in your life, and brainstorm some ways to do it (only do this if it doesnt depress you, think of it in a productive way). if all this is to much right now, read a book or excersize. This wont go on forever, remember that. Also remember your not alone and there are tons of kids who have the same problems.  What doesnt kill you makes you stronger! hang in there and it will all be alright good luck!

Answer 10

r u sure ur not depressed?

Answer 11

Do you have one friend that you just tell it all to?

if not, maybe consider kids help phone, they're there so your never alone when things get too over-whelming

im sure its just a phase :) Maybe, when your back to school everything will be better again :)

Answer 12

This is the age where your hormones are all goofed up and growing up as a teenager these days is not easy, i really reccomend you go and see a counselor as it helped me when i was a teenager---you can wait until school starts to see a school counselor if you do not want your family knowing you are talking to someone else.