I just started college in a new place and am having trouble making friends. I am usually by myself. Help PLZ?

Question

I just started college in a new place and am having trouble making friends. I am usually by myself. Help PLZ?

Answer 1

That's sad. Dude no offense that's sad. A college guy asking how to make friends. It's easy. Follow this ONE STEP.

Say HI!.

That will change your life FOREVER =).

Answer 2

try talking to someone

Answer 3

TRY JOINING SOME SCHOOL CLUB AND GET INVOLVED WITH ACTIVITIES. OR JUST GO BY YOURSELF , THERES BOUND TO BE PEOPLE U CAN MEET WHEREVER YOU GO.

Answer 4

1. find out someone who has the same intrests as you do *easiest way* 2. talk to the person and then a lovely convo. will be started

3. get to know more about the person and u'll make ur first freind for sure

Answer 5

just be ur self and go meet people  

Answer 6

Smile a lot and try not to do things on your own, eg don't read a book in your free time, play a team sport instead, or basically do anything where you'll have to interact with other people at your college in a social setting.

Secondly, this will sound like a mean plan, but it always works >:) If you're a very shy person, find someone who's even shyer and less confident than you, and start showing off to them about something you're good at. The person will latch onto you because they think you're cool and a great person too for approaching them Once you've made one friend, hopefully you'll have the confidence to start making more :)

Answer 7

Its ok. Just tell people hi and ask what they're majoring in. It works. :)

Answer 8

go out and talk to people are jump online and chat are go to free sites where you can hook up check out craiglist are check out http://www.googleitt.com hope this helps

Answer 9

It may take time but you will find friends, This may be the same for other people. Try finding a group of people who like the same things you do, look for people who find interest in what you do. Approach other people, ask how their day was, even start by asking to borrow a pencil because then they may not be afraid to talk to you again. Ignore the gasbag who said it was sad, he is sad for asking a serious question with a ridiculous answer, hope it helps

Answer 10

Try to talk to people in your classes. Join a club or two. They are just people, just like you.

Answer 11

Well I feel your pain been there done that,the best thing to do is just be yourself.People will see how great a guy you are if you just be your self!

Trust me! Good luck!

Answer 12

    I do ur should i say used to suck and i mean majorly suck at making friend and got tired of trying so instead of being so stock-up i decided to loosen up and i made friends and more people than i ever expected made me their friend but the amazing part is that this drastic change was noticed by no other person but me  and when i asked why made me their friend  all of a sudden they all said its because i smiled much more than i did before.

   So i'll say just smiled and trust me things will work out ur way  

Answer 13

You should join clubs and activities. Sign up for fundraisers and car washes. Join your school's student association.

good luck!

=]

Answer 14

start by getting involved in activities or clubs or just go simple introduce yourself say who you are where your from and ask to hang out later

Answer 15

Start conversations with class mates.  Chances are if they are in similar classes they probably have some similar interests.  

If you live in a dorm, they usually is some kind of courtyard or community area.  Go and hang out.  Walk up and talk to people.  Remember if you don't hit it off with them it doesn't matter because there are thousands of people around chances are ya'll won't remember each other if you meet again later.  There really isn't any risk in trying.

Answer 16

What do you say, after you say hello.

The five love languages.

The games people play.

How to win friends and influence people.

Read all of these books, and you will either be better at making friends, you may understand the process better.

Then again you may be done with school by then, and you will have completed college without aquiring a felony charge.

Answer 17

join clubs and activities, join a fraternity or sorority. Make friends, you need to work to maintain friends.  

Answer 18

Just start talking to EVERYONE! College is a great place to reinvent yourself because no ones knows who you are or where in high school or whatever. Just join some groups, go to the gym, wherever you can meet new people. Believe me, a lot of people there are in the same boat that you are and would be very grateful if someone was really friendly, so give it a try.

Answer 19

Go to places with social gatherings, just say hi to people, talk to people in class, as people for help, very simple, just go say hi and start a conversation, not hard meeting people

Answer 20

Join some school clubs that interest you.