I just told my mom that i was pregnant with my stepfather's baby and she throw me out of the house.

Question

i told my mom today that i was having her husbands baby and she did not

believed a word i was saying,my stepfather even denied that i had s*x with him,and he knows that he is the only man in my life.i staying now at a friend's house,but i don't know were to go.Two hours ago my stepfather came to my friend's house and told me that he love me and that he denied it because he did not have anywere to go.we we had s*x again on my friend's sofa,and he told me that he was going to steal some money from my mom's bank account so that we can raise our baby together. what should i do

Answer 1

lil fuzzy this is not for maury it is for jerry

i think this is nasty on so many levels ewww you have also sleep with your mom as you when you sleep with him you sleep with everyone he has sleep with

you should have called your mom and let her know he was there with you and hollared at him and let her hear so she could get rid of that sick man

but not much you can do if you are over 18 if you are not over 18 i hope your mom remembers to press charges on him  

Answer 2

adoption

Answer 3

um. you seem like you got alot of figuring out to do.

Answer 4

I know what you see in him. You feel like your life is nothing but chaos, and he is so old and wise that you think he can help you solve your problems and bring stability to your life. Maybe you also feel a lot of anger towards your mother and you, subconciously, see this as having power over her?

These are no reasons to be involved with someone, especially in this case. Older men do NOT bring stability, but better at controlling partly of the "situation" but also over you (though you don't realise it) since he is an authorative figure. Your stepfather, for example, has done the opposite - he has brought MORE chaos. Your mother AND you are now pregnant with his child, and you have been kicked out of your own home.

Look honey, I'm so sorry, I know you're in love with him. But I doubt this man DOES NOT love you. He's a pedophile, he's using you and he's feeding off your unsureness in order to get what he wants. He should go to prison for what he did to you. He lied to your mom about what he did with you so that he would not lose her. He then lied to you about taking care of you later, not only to sleep with you, but also to make sure you still remain in love with him enough to not tell "the wrong people" who would then put him in jail.

Believe me, you are worth so much love, but not from this man. He has used you badly, but that doesn't mean that's what you deserve.

Hopefully, you're mom will come to her senses soon and kick him out of the house and bring you back. She's pregnant too with his child, and she must be very surprised and unsure what's going to happen to (soon to be) all five of you.

And remember, your child, no matter what, deserves to be loved. If you don't think you can take care of it yourself (Your step-father will not be taking care of you and the baby, I'm sorry!), you should give it up for adoption. There are some nice adoption services where you can choose the parents yourself, you know.

I hope you been helped by a lot from what I've written. If you still feel that you need to talk to someone about this, and are still unsure whether to turn him in, talk to a preast or preacher. They will keep things completely confidential if you ask them to. They won't tell you or think that you are a sinner (You aren't) They would just want to help guide you. That is there job.

So..... To answer your question more exactly; what should you do?? Please, stay away from him. Your only going to get hurt EVEN MORE. You and your future baby deserve better than this!

I hope I've helped. Good luck! <3

Answer 5

did ur mom throw stuff around the trailor when she got mad at you? ew thats gross.babys going to think grand pa is daddy haaa oh yeah GOOD ONE

Answer 6

THAT DISGUSTING!!!!

Answer 7

At the age of 15, your mother should have thrown HIM out of the house, not you!  Actually, what should have happened is this: She should have beat his azz to a bloody pulp, called the police and had him arrested for child molestation and having s*x with a minor.  

What you should do is call the police and report what has happened, and ask for assistance through child protective services.  Since the pregnancy is the result of a rape, you may qualify for an abortion through child protection services.  

The fact that he would come to you at your friend's house and continue to solicit you for s*x shows that he is a complete and utter loser. Try to find some self respect and refuse to see him again.  You are showing classic victim abuse charactertistics, and you need to wrap your head around the idea that you don't deserve to be in this situation.

And, personally, I could smack your mother for not being more proactive.  

Answer 8

Whats wrong with u?

how u could u do that, u are completely in the wrong here, ur mom had every right to kick u out, and she should kick his nasty a** out too, both of u are a disgrace, he's a loser who most likely gonna leave u too, and ur an idiot for what u did, ha u sure made ur bed now ur gonna lay in it.

Answer 9

That's just wrong.  You deserve to be thrown out and so does your mom's husband.  You should tell your baby's daddy to come clean.  Doesn't he have a job.  Don't steal money from your own mother.  You should support your own child.

Answer 10

what the heck are you doin' s******g your MOM'S husband? i don't know what to tell you...seriously

Answer 11

call the Maury show,or the steve wilco's show. i'm not being flippant.either show will get you help.you can call jessica at  1-877-836-3416  and she will get you help.she's from the wilko's show.

Answer 12

he doesn't love you like that.

he is a sick ******* pedofile.

he just wants you for the s*x,

and i can't believe you fell for that.

go to the police and report him,

thats gross.

secretely record a conversation about this between you and him and show it to your mom,

maybe then she'll have the smarts to leave him.

he's trash and you shouldn't get involved in that.

stay away from him.

Answer 13

how old are you? if you are a minor he needs to do some serious time where was your mom when all this was happening this is so sad and you all need help your mom your brother  your step dad and you

Answer 14

get away from that liar and thief he is not a person that you would want raising your child.  go apply for wic and medicaid, and pell grant start going to school and get a certificate or degree in something so you can have a fruitful life

Answer 15

Didnt ou ask a question yesterday. Telling everyone you were 14 and the stepfather is 45. I think this joke has gone on far to long. Give it up little girl. Like I said yesterday if this is true which I highly dought your stepfather will be going to jail for a long time.

Answer 16

That is absolutely disgusting and you should be completely ashamed of yourself!

Answer 17

Can't you find better ways to get attention?  Thanks for the two points.

Oh, forgot to answer the question:  call Jerry Springer here is the number:  888-321-5351.  It really is, seriously give it a call.  

Answer 18

lil fuzzy LMAO U MADE ME LAUGH SO MUCH !!!

Answer 19

why did u even have s*x with your stepfather?! ugh wellat least hes trying to help, if u feel going with your stepdad is the right choice then go but i sugjest that you go find your mom and tell her that you r sorry and regret it ask if you can come home even if you love your stepdad as more than a stepdad lol you may not be able to do anything and y didnt she kick him out i mean hes her husband and he had s*x with you.

Answer 20

Jerry, Jerry, Jerry!

Oh, yeah....HAHAHAHAHAHA! I'm glad you got kicked out! You're ****** up! Litterally!

Answer 21

THAT IS SO SICK

Answer 22

dude, you have a big mess here.

i'm not gping 2 help u becuse this is just soo wrong on mny levels.

how could u do tht 2 ur mom!?!

Answer 23

That is wrong in so many levels. You mum's boyfriend is like woody allen. You should know better then to have s*x with your step dad.

What should you do? You should go to a shrink.

you shouldn't have slept with him.

And you should steel from your mum.

Answer 24

Go to a shelter or a family members house until you can work things out with you mom.

Answer 25

oh my gosh! this is like crazy,

how old is your step dad and how old are you?

Answer 26

get away from that guy!when you confront your mom again he will lie and say that he did not do anything with you you should not go with him and you should try to not make him take money from your mom's account why would you let him do that?she has raised you sinced you were little and now that some guy comes along and wants to steal?you should tell him that you do not want to be with him!!!!!hope i helped(:(:

Answer 27

Go and see your mom, talk to her about it and tell her you dont know what to do and need her help in this.

Answer 28

Thats sick.

Answer 29

You sicko... You are going to end up working at McDonald's, then you will get promoted to manager and get fat by sitting at your desk all day eating nuggets and fries. That is really low.

Adolescence people!

Answer 30

whether what you did is wrong or not, it was done and only you can be the judge of that. but i don't think you should have the baby. because i think no matter how serious he is now about the relationship he can leave you hanging with a baby.

if he had to steal money from ur mom that mean you and him probably don't have money to support anyone not even the baby. You can be conservative and give it all to the baby but it won't be enough cause it will be stressful when money is tight. and you don't even know where the stepfather would stand by that time. You can imagine, believe, hope, picture how it can be but nothing going to happen if you can't stick to a decision and live through it.

if somehow you decide to let go what you need to let go, you can try to go back to your mother to apologize and have her home as your home. but if she chose not to forgive then you really have to work and start taking care of yourself the best way you can. Friends help but i think you wouldn't want to bother them all the time.