My friend is married with 2 children...same goes here. She lives out of state, and we talk prob 5-6 times a week. She had been telling me that her best friend, who is a mutual friend...I just really don't care to talk to her anymore, hasn't had time to even call to see how she is doing, and how bad it hurt her...and that nobody really calls except for me. Well her hubby's in the military, and is leaving, so they came into town....she did not even call me! She came in on a Sat. I called her Monday, because I knew she would be busy with family stuff and didn't want to intrude. Her mom answered and said she was with her best friend, and I told her to have her call me. She finally called Thurs. saying she was busy, which is to be expected. Well...come Sat. I called her left a message, and left her an email, because I had to go to my lil cuz's grad party, and had to miss her husband's going away party durring the day part...(she already knew this) and to call me with the after party, because I had a babysitter. I never got a phone call from her, but one of my other friends called at 12am and asked why I didn't come....(she wanted me there, she doesn't really know my friend, she is dating one of the guys I have hung out with sinse high school..that's how I know her.) I told her I didn't know anything was going on, because nobody got back with me. She was here 3 weeks, and the day before she left...I called her, and went to her parents, because I really wanted to see her baby...I hadn't seen him. But, she acts like we are such great friends...but through out those 3 weeks, I saw her once, and talked to her four times...because I called. But, she hung out with everybody else...on more than one occasion. Do I have a reason to be hurt? Am I over reacting? I haven't called her sinse she has been back home, because I am so sick of this...I am the only one that keeps in contact with her...nobody else...then she hangs out with everbody she complains about, and says she is hurt by. She didn't even come to see my kids?!
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