I just want to be normal..

Question

My parents in the weekends make me go to 3 saturday schools and some on sunday it means no hanging out with my friends and at night on the weekends my parents provide me home work and can't even watch TV at all! Also my parents give me so much home work of theres its impossible to do my school work but usually they tellme to do my school work then the work they provide me. And i'm doing pretty well then the other students. When i want to go some where i can't only once! In the holidays i have to do home work and my schedule is constantly. home work homework homework! But my friends says there schedule daily is doing nails going to the movies taking photos surfing the net watching TV at night and doing home work and every one of them are the same even the nerds are aloud to watch TV at ngiht.!!

Answer 1

Stand up for yourself and tell your parents wat you just typed. Stick it out and say you are not going to do any unnecessary homework if you cant have any freedom. Explain to them that you are a teen and someone your age needs to go out in the world and experience things. But when you explain it to em call them together and calmly tell them how you feel because that would show them that you are a mature person

Answer 2

wow you've got some homework n**i parents. I say rebel at all cost. negotiate. and get what you want.

Answer 3

you sound a little stressed.  Your parents aren't honoring your stage of life.  You should be enjoying being a kid.  However, they are trying to prepare you to be an adult.  Try to talk to them.  If they won't budge, try to figure out how to fit some kid friendly activities into your life with the time you have left.  You need oppurtunities to laugh and relax to be a balanced person.

Answer 4

Tell your parents. You can't just live with this. REBEL! Fight back if you want your freedom. And make sure they listen to you. Ok?

Answer 5

i suggest dont be angry at your parents, never be always be nice to them, tell them nicely that homework is max 3 hours a day even for university students. Tell them that you will just do homework for 2 or 3 hours and thats what ur teacher suggested you as well and if they dont believe you tell them to talk with ur teacher then they think, oh she might be saying the truth. But seriously homework should be maximum for 3 hours a day. If you just spend 3 hours you will do better than anyone else in the class in the whole school tell them that but nicely. let them know that spending too much time on homework can also effect ur health. But dont be rude they will understand for sure. Try it atleast

hope it helped

Answer 6

Have you got someone that you can ask to invite you over for a sleepover? Try getting someone who your parents respect to talk to them with you over some of the issues you have. I agree that you cannot become a rounded person just by studying you have to experience life as well and have FUN!

Maybe print off the answers and let them read them, if not then the only thing I can suggest is talking to your schools councillor.

Good Luck.

Answer 7

:/ when i was about 15 i learned the word "no." lol

Answer 8

AWWW poor girl.

i think its stupid that parents give you homework.

ask them why?

and if they say "because it will make you smarter/independent/busy or whatever, tell them

"well, kids who are smarter then me in my class dont have parent homework because they have time to study really good."

or you can say

"i never get to have any fun, you guys wont' let me do anything,, why?"

"and if thye something like, cuz your too young, then say,

"i hate you"

lol dont say that.

Answer 9

Here is the key: Sit your parents down and be mature. Say to them "listen, i understand that you do what you do because you love me and you want to help me make the best out of my life. But in order to do that i need some time to chill out and be a regular teenager to."

Don't get whiny and upset bucollaboratete with them. Even if you want your weekends to be completely free of school stuff and homework, you don't need that right away. You could say "how about from 5 o clock in the evening onwards on friday and saturday till curfew, i get to go out, hang out with friends, go to the movies." That gives you time to go to dinner and stuff. Eventually when your parents see that with more free time, you can still do just as well with your school work, grades, and the homework they provide...and they'll notice that you're a lot happier because you get to have fun. Then like if there is a party you want to go to and it stretches your free time hours a little, ask politely. Remind them that the free time you do have doesn't effect your schooling performances. Eventually you can bend and stretch your hours until you have as much as you want.

You have to please them and make them only see reasonable explantation and not what you want. Make them think that they are getting what they want.

Answer 10

Tell your parents that you are doing well in school and if they continue to assign you homework you are going to get burnout and not want to do any of it.

Answer 11

I don't believe in the word normal. Everyone is exactly how they are supposed to be. Everyone is unique.

Answer 12

how old are you?

hopefully your almost old enough to get the h**l out of your house. try to be rebellious

Answer 13

Poptart gave a great answer. Tell your parents you are getting overwhelmed. Explain to them you need a bit of 'down time' when you can just relax and be a kid.