I just want to know what do you think, Ladies and Gentlement?

Question

Me and my boyfriend have been together for four years and we have a beautiful one year old daughter together. Unfortunately he has not proposed to me. I don't know what he is waiting on. Do you think that it will come or should I just Live only for my daughter and not for my Family all together. In other words, should I leave?

Answer 1

Leaving him without trying to communicate first is a bit drastic.  Talk to him about getting married first.  Let him know that you're ready and think you two should begin taking those steps.  See what he says.  He may surprise you!

Answer 2

Why don't you propose to him?!?!? It's 2008 now. I see nothing wrong with a woman proposing marriage. I do, however, see something wrong with a woman who would rather ask strangers online instead of talking to her significant other about this marriage issue. Speak up!!!

Answer 3

Have a serious talk with him and tell him how you feel and what you want in your life (like him becoming your hubby). Since you have a child already, but guys can be very scared of the M word,,dunno why but they are... And it's your choice about leaving thats a huge thing to think about...

Answer 4

Why leave?? If you want to get married why not ask him, the worst he is going to say is no, and then decide if you want to leave. Don't leave just because he is dragging his feet, not without making a move.

Answer 5

sit him down and talk to him about it one night . Don't leave just b/c he hasn't done it yet. But don't stay forever either

Answer 6

maybe hes just happy and content the way things are. why would u leave just cuz he hasnt proposed? have u guys ever talked about marriage? that sounds kinda shallow to leave for that if there is no other problems.  

Answer 7

Did you ask him ? Whats the difference who ask as long as one of you do then you will know for sure . Woman are funny ,they want to be equal but dont know how

Answer 8

lol cool

Answer 9

It's up to you. If the relationship is happy and healthy then you should not need to leave. Sit down and talk to him about where you see yourself in the future. If you really want to get married, then TELL HIM! If he doesn't know then you can't fault him for that, hey, he's a guy, they need training wheels sometimes. Now, if you think he is looking for something better then, go ahead and look too, by yourself.

Answer 10

Take him for a cruise and point out a local diamond shop and say oh wow look i head they were having a sale, or have one of his friends talk to him. He could be one of those men who dont liek that type of commitment.